Meaningful People

In this episode of the Meaningful People Podcast, Tuvia Blau and Hindy Herman address one of the most painful and least talked-about struggles in our community: parental alienation and family estrangement. They unpack what estrangement actually looks like, how it develops, and why the emotional toll on parents and adult children alike can feel unbearable.
 
With honesty and compassion, Tuvia and Hindy explore both sides of the story, parents and children, touching on boundaries, shame, communication breakdowns, and the tools needed for healing. This conversation isn't about blame. It's about understanding, growth, and the possibility of rebuilding connection, even when it feels impossible.



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A father and son sit down for an unusually honest conversation about Jewish identity, continuity, and choice. Allen Horowitz was raised with a strong cultural Jewish pride but little religious observance; his son Meir grew up the same way, until a series of experiences slowly pulled him in a radically different direction. What begins as a familiar American Jewish story turns into something far more complex, touching on interfaith dating, generational expectations, and the quiet questions people are often afraid to ask out loud.
As Meir's curiosity deepens, through travel, community, and personal struggle, father and son find themselves navigating a widening gap in worldview while trying to preserve trust, respect, and love. This episode isn't about convincing or converting; it's about watching a relationship adapt in real time as one person changes and the other learns how to respond. A raw, thoughtful look at faith, fear, autonomy, and what it really means to support someone you love, even when their path isn't the one you imagined.



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Four years ago, Shaina's life changed forever.
 
Her husband, Yaakov—beloved, successful, devoted, admired—took his own life.
In this raw and deeply moving conversation, Shaina speaks openly about what it's like to live through a tragedy that many are forced to hide, but she was never given the option to silence. She shares the painful reality of loving someone who was suffering invisibly, the strength it took to keep moving forward, and the unexpected blessing of authenticity in the aftermath.
This episode goes beyond grief. It confronts the stigma around mental illness in the Jewish community, the cost of suffering in silence, and the courage it takes to talk when no one else will. Shaina challenges how we view suicide—not as weakness, but as a battle fought daily—and why telling the truth may be the only way to prevent the next tragedy.
This is not an easy listen.
But it is a necessary one.
 
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In this powerful episode, David Lichtenstein opens up about wealth, success, failure, and what truly gives life meaning. From business setbacks and rebuilding, to philanthropy, community responsibility, and personal resilience, this conversation challenges how we define success and where our real value comes from. It's an honest look at money, pressure, ego, and purpose, through a deeply Jewish lens grounded in lived experience.
 
The discussion goes far beyond finances, touching on tzedakah, leadership, cancel culture, failure, healing from trauma, Israel, and the responsibility to speak about uncomfortable but necessary topics. This is a raw, thoughtful conversation about courage, clarity, and living with conviction, even when it's unpopular.
 
 
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:32 Early life and background
3:47 "My father was wealthy without money"
4:57 Wealth as a shallow metric of success
6:52 Community, comparison, and status
8:35 The sequoia trees and interlocking roots
10:06 Tablecloths, envy, and social pressure
11:50 Maaser and "show me the data"
13:13 Who the real community heroes are
14:14 Are rabbeim underpaid?
16:09 Giving tzedakah responsibly
17:32 Giving with your body vs your wallet
18:43 The burning palace and human responsibility
21:26 Applause, self-worth, and identity
23:05 The "levaya rule" and ignoring pressure
26:52 Pressure on major donors
29:30 Speaking about abuse, suicide, and taboo topics
34:01 Cancel culture in the frum world
40:17 Media, Zionism, and controversial conversations
47:38 Losing everything and rebuilding through Torah
51:47 Turning failure into fuel
56:55 Teshuva, forgiveness, and accountability
1:00:26 Israel, yeshiva world, and survival
1:07:40 Rav Gustman story and defending life

What goes through a person's mind when they're told—before even stepping into the courtroom—that they've been sentenced to 27 years in prison?
In this raw and deeply moving conversation, Shalom Mordechai Rubashkin takes us inside the moments that changed his life forever: hearing the sentence, choosing emunah over despair, surviving years behind bars, and ultimately witnessing a miracle no one expected.
This is not just a story about prison or justice—it's a masterclass in faith under fire, resilience in the face of total powerlessness, and what it truly means to trust Hashem when there is no visible way out.


From the courtroom to solitary confinement, from despair to unexpected freedom, Rubashkin shares how emunah transformed punishment into purpose—and why the greatest freedom begins long before the prison doors open.

A story of darkness, light, and the strength to keep believing when everything says not to.
 
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