But where Did My Libido Go? Sex, Intimacy & Motherhood with Jo Robertson
In this very real, and oh-so-needed conversation, Beth and Lilly sit down with Jo Robertson, renowned Sex and Relationship Therapist, for a deep and honest chat about sex, intimacy, and relationships in early motherhood.Whether you're in the thick of postpartum, navigating the emotional load of motherhood, or simply wondering “where the heck did my libido go?”, this episode is a balm for your heart—and your body. Jo shares powerful insights on:Why libido often vanishes after birthThe truth about desire (hint: you’re absolutely not broken)How to reconnect with your partner when you're touched out and time-poorPractical ways to bring intimacy back into your life—on your termsWe asked your questions—and got the answers we all needed to hear. Perfect for new mums, mums-to-be, or any woman feeling disconnected from her sensual self. This is a guilt-free, shame-free zone to feel seen, supported, and inspired to gently reclaim your sexual self—when you’re ready.Resources & Links:Jo Robertson’s Website – jo-robertson.comJo’s Postpartum Course – Postpartum Sex CourseFollow Jo on Instagram – @jorobertson.therapy Have more questions for Jo or want to share your experience? DM us on Instagram @growingthepodcast or leave us a voice note—we’d love to hear from you. Share us with your mum club, bestie or partner so they can join the conversation and leave us a review wherever you choose to listen.
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Breech Babies, Pelvic Floor Truths & Changing Relationships — You Asked, We Answered
This week on Growing, Beth and Lilly dive into a listener-fuelled Q&A, tackling real and raw questions from you, our amazing community. From breech birth options and navigating big babies to the often-overlooked realities of pelvic floor recovery and changing dynamics in relationships after motherhood—nothing is off-limits.With a blend of professional insight and lived experience, this episode is full of compassion, evidence-based advice, and those “me too” moments every mum needs.Whether you're pregnant, postpartum, or somewhere in between, there’s something here for you.Spinning Babies – Encouraging optimal fetal positioning: www.spinningbabies.comFollow us on Instagram: @growingthepodcastEnjoying the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it helps more mums just like you find us!
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Should we be commenting on pregnant bodies?!
This week Beth and Lilly hear one of your growing pains and it’s a doozy! If you’ve been pregnant which we know many of you have, you've probably received some poorly delivered comments in regard to your beautiful growing and changing body. We know it's often not meant maliciously but it’s got to stop! We chat all about it in today’s episode and hopefully add some value with how to respond when enough is enough. Loved this episode? Please leave us a 5 star review wherever you choose to listen and follow us over on Instagram @growingthepodcast
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Our Caesarean Birth Non-Negotiables
This weeks episode is all about setting mothers up for success if a caesarean is their chosen and/or needed mode of birth. Our non-negotiables stem from both the girls' professional expertise as midwives and additional layers from Lil’s lived experience. We recommend also listening to our episode on Hospital Stay without your Partner for some extra helpful tips to support your stay and recovery. Product wise Lilly loved the Bare Mum Compression Undies and Lululemon align bike pants. Send this on to someone you know who’s planning a caesarean birth or a friend who just wants to go into birth with eyes wide open for all options. Join us on instagram @growingthepodcast and leave us a review if you have the time we would appreciate it so much!
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6 months in with 2, what Beth's learned (so far)
Today Lil and Beth (and Alfie) chat candidly about how Beth is going with two kids 6 months in. Relative to the duality that is the hectic and heaven of motherhood Beth’s 6 month old joins us for the chat due to - life. We hope you enjoy! We touch on themes of mental health, if you need additional support check in with your GP and see resources at Panda for support in the first 12 months. If you loved today's episode we would really appreciate you sharing us with your mum club, following us on Instagram @growingthepodcast and leaving us a 5 star review wherever you choose to listen.
Growing is your handbook for birth, babies and beyond brought to you by midwives and mums Beth Ryan and Lilly Claxton. Join us every Wednesday for a solid dose of solidarity as we explore all things motherhood.
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