Rope Podcast

This week, Fox and Mya explore a role in rope bondage that doesn’t get nearly enough attention: the rope assistant. Neither top nor bottom, but an active and intentional part of the scene—this dynamic opens up new possibilities for connection, support, and creativity.
Fox and Mya break down:
• What the role actually involves (and common misconceptions)
• Ways a rope assistant can contribute to a scene
• How power, service, and intention can show up in this dynamic
• Who might enjoy this role and why
• Tips to make the experience fulfilling for everyone involved
• Handling the added complexity of multi-person scenes
• Risks to be aware of when introducing a third person
• Personal examples of how this dynamic has worked in practice
A practical, thoughtful look at expanding rope dynamics and creating more connected, collaborative scenes.

From squeaky ducky paddles to exquisite rope art Muffy's creative journey is anything but ordinary. The owner of UK BDSM brand Against-TheGrain, Muffy is an intermediate rope switch who's turned shibari into something playful, painful, and unexpectedly meditative: colouring books for rope lovers.
Created in collaboration with 7 artists across the UK, USA, and Australia, these books transform real riggers and rope bottoms into expressive, erotic art meant to be felt, not followed.
In this episode, Mya and Fox dig into:
- Turning rope into interactive art
- Capturing erotic anguish on the page
- The challenges of building a global creative collaboration
- Why these images are about interpretation, not instruction
- What colouring adds to the shibari experience
- And the hosts delight at seeing their own rope images brought to life

When does a tie become suspension-worthy? Is it a binary "Yes/No," or is there a grey area where physics and risk collide?
This week, we’re answering a brilliant listener question from @TangledNTwisted: “What actually makes a tie suspension-worthy?”
Fox and Mya break down the "Suspendability Spectrum," moving away from rigid rules and moving toward a framework of Data, Mechanics, and Risk Management.
What We’re Breaking Down:
- The Risk Profile: How to evaluate the "cost of failure" before the feet leave the floor.
- The Mechanics of Injury: Identifying the specific anatomical stressors (nerves, circulation, and soft tissue) that change when gravity enters the chat.
- Surface Area & Distribution: The physics of why "more rope" isn't always the simple answer.
- The "Bottom’s Tax": How much are we actually asking of the person in the ropes?
- Science-ing It: How to gather data through incremental testing and low-air experimentation.

The Takeaway:
Suspendability isn't a checkbox; it’s a conversation between the rigger, the bottom, and the laws of physics. We’re here to help you move from "I think this is safe" to "I have the data to know why this works."

Mya is stepping out of the studio and into the heart of the action. This week, we’re bringing you a special field report from “She Ties”, an event dedicated exclusively to female riggers and male bottoms.
Since Fox (male rigger) and Mya (female bottom) can’t speak to this dynamic from personal experience, we’re passing the mic to the community. Featuring atmospheric audio recorded on-site, we hear from a global roster of voices—hailing from Thailand and Taiwan to the UK and Russia.
What’s inside:
- The Nuance: Why individual connection always trumps the binary.
- The Physicality: Practical tips for navigating different body types and mechanics.
- The Social Shift: Breaking down the "big spoon/little spoon" stigma in the rope scene.

The Interview Guest List:
- Riggers: HuaHua, Yada Kinabalu, Noir_fix, May, Sasha
- Bottoms: Pang, Co, Ratta
- Spectators: Gorgone and Sawyer
A quick note: The audio is live and "in the wild"—forgive the background noise, but enjoy the energy!

The Agura tie shows up again and again in shibari - but what makes it so enduring, and how can you work with it more intentionally?
In this Rope Focus episode, Fox and Mya break the Agura tie down piece by piece: how it’s built, how it feels, and how small choices in structure, orientation, and intent can dramatically change the experience.
They dive into:
• What the Agura position actually is - including easier and more demanding variations (and what Fox affectionately calls the leg pretzel)
• Different ways to construct the tie, and how those choices affect comfort and control
• More sustainable versus less sustainable versions, and when each might make sense
• How to increase the strength of the tie to reduce deformation and slippage
• Mya’s perspective on what it feels like to be in Agura, and what she enjoys about it as a bottom
• Practical tips for helping bottoms relax into the position, and bottoming skills that support the tie
• How Agura feels in different orientations, on the floor and in suspension
• The five distinct suspension orientations and what each one brings
• The overall vibe of the position, physically and psychologically
• How Fox enforces the position, and what that adds to the dynamic
• Managing safety, risk, and responsibility in this classic tie
Whether you’re meeting Agura for the first time or refining a tie you already love, this episode offers both technical insight and experiential depth.