rope partners Fox and Mya, The Rope Podcast is an adult podcast about rope bondage, Shibari and Kinbaku. Listen for discussions of ties, rope topics and news, interviews, reviews of events and rope gear, and listener questions.
Ep203: How do you know if you’re ready to be a Rope Educator? (Listener Mail)
One of our lovely listeners left this comment for us with the following questions:
1. When it comes to being a rope educator, what are the essential skills someone should have?
2. How do you know if you're ready to teach rope to others?
3. How do you ensure you're not teaching above your own skill level?
4. How do you develop a rope curriculum?
In this episode the rope podcast hosts explore these questions, sharing their own opinions and ideas on them, touching on:
• Three essential skills before you think about teaching rope
• Whether you are really the best person to decide if you’re ready to teach rope
• Why being great at doing rope isn’t the same as being great as teaching rope
• The skills that matter more than technical
• Creating the right physical and psychological container for your class
• Pre-requisites and how to position them
• Why switches might not always make the best teachers
• The difference between creating a rope curriculum and a rope class
• Creating coherence in rope curriculums
• What the difference is between a community leader and a rope educator
• And plenty more.
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Ep202: Fostering community for men who tie men: An interview with Bondage Otter (part2)
BondageOtter(he/they) is the founder of Rope Burn SF, the USA’s first ongoing masc-of-center, rope-specific play party + skill share, with his remaining energy spent volunteering for numerous gay organizations. A queer leatherman and rope switch, he maintains a private S/M practice while organizing public education and play programs for the community of people who want to tie masc-of-center bodies.
He commits a huge amount of his free time to successfully creating gay rope events and community, and in this episode shares some of his learnings on his journey in this area.
In the episode, hear about:
• The structure of Rope Burn
• Logistics of large rope parties with 50-70 people
• Using rope events to invest back in the community
• Founding the men tying men conference in 2024
• What the conference experience looks like for participants
• Choosing the right educators for the conference
• Learnings from year one
• Managing safety at this type of big, complex event
• What public versus private play looks like for him
• And more!
Listen now on all podcast platforms. You can alsogo back to Episode 201 to hear part 1 of the interview.
BondageOtter (he/they) is a queer leatherman and rope switch who maintains a private S/M practice while organizing public education and play programs for the community of people who want to tie masc-of-center bodies.
He is particularly devoted to adapting Eastern aesthetic principles to the tying of larger bodies, honoring the history and feel of Japanese tying while opening it up to the erotic scenarios of the leather bar.
While he has studied with many official and unofficial teachers in Japan, Europe, and the Americas, he has primarily focused on the styles of Naka Akira, Akechi Kanna, and Yoroï Nicolas. He He enjoys sharing his style of play with others, aiming for scenes to be both hot and hurty, where the progressive restriction of freedom encourages creative forms of expression for both top and bottom.
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Ep201 : Tips and ideas for men who tie men, An interview with Bondage Otter (part1)
BondageOtter (he/they) is a queer leatherman and rope switch who maintains a private S/M practice while organizing public education and play programs for the community of people who want to tie masc-of-center bodies.
His education seeks to fuse Japanese aesthetics with the erotics of gay leather culture. The podcast hosts talked to him about how his rope experience in that culture is different from the cis-het/pansexual community, and the unique perspective that, along with hie experience living in Japan and running events, gives him. He also shares some of the implications for tops and bottoms when you primarily tie men.
With huge energy, a refreshingly direct and open perspective on rope and sexuality, and strong self-reflection, Bondage Otter is a delight to listen to. In the episode you can hear more about:
• His rope journey
• A great tip to break into the kink community
• Three things he loves about rope
• How shame and embarrassment figure in his play
• What he does to blend Japanese aesthetics and gay leather culture
• How he adapts Eastern aesthetic principles to be sustainable for larger body types
• How he ‘reads’ a new partner for pick-up play
• Tips for tying cut versus uncut penises
• Suggestions for tying men from the perspective of both bottom and top
• How to broaden your sources of inspiration for tying
• Making the experience of suspending male bodies better for all parties
• And plenty more.
BondageOtter is the founder of Rope Burn SF, the USA’s first ongoing masc-of-center, rope-specific play party + skill share, with his remaining energy spent volunteering for numerous gay organizations.
Listen now on all podcast platforms, and look out for Episode 202 to hear part 2 of the interview.
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Ep200: Special episode - the Rope Podcast and friends reflect on 200 episodes!
It’s hard for us to believe, but this episode is number 200 of the Rope Podcast. That’s a lot of ropey goodness! Starting back in 2017, we’ve somehow managed to produce episodes every two weeks on a regular basis.
This fun episode celebrates our story so far - a story that in many ways echoes the growth of rope bondage in society at large. We hear updates from some of our guests, including Shay Tizano, Wooden Tiger, Faviola Llervu, RopuNawa, Violet Rain, MistressJ, Chrisian Red, Voudou Ropes, Ebi McKnotty and MarcyVQ, on how the podcast has impacted them personally and their communities.
We also share some behind the scenes glimpses that will draw back the curtain on some of our ways of working (think, a lot of blushing for Mya, mostly!).
Sit back and enjoy this jam-packed episode now, and use our reminiscences to find new angles on the topic of Rope Bondage once more.
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Ep199: Going deeper with Decorative Rope: An interview with Mistress J (part 2)
Mistress J is an Australian switch known internationally for her gorgeous decorative rope. In our last episode we explored some fundamentals of the art, as well as getting to know Mistress J and her rope practice. In this episode, we go deeper, and talk to her about:
• Pros and cons of mixing decorative rope with other forms of rope
• Her inner sadist!
• A top tip for performances (that Fox and Mya also implement)
• Skills and qualities that a bottom can bring to decorative rope
• What she needs to know from her bottom when tying this kind of rope
• How tying artistic rope differs from other forms of rope
• The starter kit you might need for trying out this rope
• The rope gear she started with
• Her go-to rope for decorative rope
• Practical tips for people who want to tie in this style
• What’s challenging about this type of rope
• How she engages her creativity in artistic rope
• Which ties are her favourite and why
• Her fabulous ‘Tie July Challenge’ and why you want to join!
Podcast by rope partners Fox and Mya, The Rope Podcast is an adult podcast about rope bondage, Shibari and Kinbaku. Listen for discussions of ties, rope topics and news, interviews, reviews of events and rope gear, and listener questions.