The Baddest Bitch in the Building

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Creating an alter ego is a cheat code not only in navigating the patriarchy, but in navigating life. It enables us to create a version of ourselves that's not weighed down by our fears and limiting beliefs.

It's no surprise so many celebrities have an alter ego...and that religions (literally) demonize people who channel them...

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:55 Unlearning the crap
18:49 The law in the wild
24:16 What this means for you
28:36 Exceptions and final thoughts

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Sources:
Not I, but she: The beneficial effects of self-distancing on challenge/threat cardiovascular responses
Self-talk as a regulatory mechanism: how you do it matters
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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I worked with some of the highest-ranking women in corporate Canada. Here are 7 behaviours I observed among all these women.

As Machiavelli says in The Prince, appearances matter more than reality. Enjoy ;)

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:05 Behaviour 1
4:30 Behaviour 2
12:54 Behaviour 3
14:34 Behaviour 4
17:05 Behaviour 5
21:14 Behaviour 6
24:11 Behaviour 7
26:23 Bonus behaviour

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Episodes mentioned:

Patriarchy Hack #33: Trigger people’s need to prove themselves to you (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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Short form content has enshittified a lot of the discourse around women empowerment. A lot of “feminist” content has been condensed into easy to digest soundbites that follows a specific formula (which I’ll get into).

In this episode I’m going to discuss three big cases of what I call “brain rot feminism” (aka pseudo women empowerment or choice feminism) that have probably shown up on your feed at some point.

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
6:08 The formula
7:46 Example 1: Having a bf is embarrassing
18:09 Example 2: “As he should”
27:22 Example 3: Being a girl’s girl
32:30 The solution

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Episodes mentioned:
Is falling in love a patriarchal trap? (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Smart women can’t afford to romanticize love (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts (Listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
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Welcome to the second episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head.

In this episode, I discuss the most dangerous type of friend in our circle. This person hides in plain sight and their danger might be dormant for years, until triggered. And sometimes, that dangerous friend is not even a person at all...

BTW this article by Elizabeth Stice was my inspo for the AI angle of this discussion.

xoxoxo
Neekolo

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:57 What Machiavelli says
13:04 Two reasons women aren't united
23:12 The MOST dangerous of all
29:48 How to take back control

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Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
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Commitment and loyalty are glorified ways of infantilizing ourselves. Patriarchy needs to mentally capture women in order to function, and one of its PR team's favourite marketing tactics is "commitment."

In this episode I'll discuss:
Why you've been conditioned to think your worth depends on how committed you are
How people play mind games to make you commit
The different disguises loyalty wears
An example of a baddie who committed, got screwed over, became unattached, and found huge success
4 strategies to never fall victim to loyalty again

In a world full of sheep and wolves, be a fox.

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
6:02 Unlearning the crap
21:35 The law in the wild
27:32 What this means for you
41:00 Exceptions & final thoughts

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
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