The Organised Method

Why does rest feel like laziness, even after you've been cleaning all day?If you've ever spent hours tidying, organising, and managing your home (only to feel guilty the moment you sit down) this video is for you. That creeping sense of laziness when you rest isn't a personal flaw. It's conditional rest: the belief that you have to earn the right to stop, and that your worth is tied to your productivity.In this episode, I'm unpacking why so many women (especially mothers) struggle to rest without guilt, why domestic labour is never "finished enough" to justify stopping, and how perfectionism and invisible mental load keep us trapped in constant motion.
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This week on TOM Extra Spin we tackle the resentment, the mental load, and the real strategies that don't involve passive-aggressive dish-stacking.

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The tea behind the brand new recipe section on the TOM app. 

Catherine is a chef and mum of 2.
She is on a mission to help 1 million families eat better.
And now she is part of the TOM Team as our in house chef! 

Follow her on IG: @chefcatherineofficial

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your little prompts ...

What do I genuinely enjoy every year?
What drains me every time, no matter how hard I try?
Where is my time actually going?
Who matters the most to me?
What do I want Boxing Day to feel like?
What tradition deserves a gentle retirement?
And what tiny new thing (even the smallest ritual) would actually bring me joy?

Gem x
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November can feel like an energy dip, but what if it’s actually a hidden gift? Let's reframe it as the perfect pause, an invitation to unwind, simplify routines and recharge before the busy festive weeks set in. 

Discover how dialling back now helps you show up stronger, steadier, and more present for all that’s ahead. 

Want to try The Organised Method app and find a gentle housekeeping routine that works for you? Head to www.theorganisedmethod.com