BABIES DOWN, BOTTLES UP

This one is one every parent needs to hear, even if you wish you didn’t.
We’re joined by Qudsiya Naqui, law professor, host of Down to the Struts, and a blind mom who breaks down what actually happens when parenting and the legal system collide. She gets into how disability is still being used against parents across the country, and why so many families are put in positions they never saw coming. :contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0}
We talk through the reality of CPS involvement, how easily situations can escalate, and what blind parents are up against on a daily basis. From understanding your state laws to building a support system, keeping documentation, and knowing your rights, this conversation is packed with information you hope you never need, but should have anyway.
Qudsiya also points to key research and resources that help make sense of all this, including Legal Ableism: A Systematic Review of State Termination of Parental Rights Laws and Disabling Families, which break down how these systems impact disabled families across the country.
Outside of the law, we get a glimpse into her personal life too, from meeting her husband on a dating app right before the world shut down, to building a family and raising her daughter while navigating a career in law.
If you're a disabled parent, thinking about starting a family, or trying to understand what your rights actually look like, take this one in.
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We’re collaborating with Down to the Struts and featuring one of their episodes right here on Babies Down, Bottles Up.
In this crossover, Qudsiya is joined by NASA’s Denna Lambert for a conversation about the work she’s doing to push diversity, equity, inclusion, and access forward in space innovation and exploration. Denna shares her experience as part of the second disabled cohort to experience zero gravity and what that means for accessibility here on Earth.
She also talks about life as a single mom raising her four-year-old son, Kaleb, and how balancing motherhood with a career in a high-level space can feel like being in orbit some days.
Denna Lambert is a collaborator and advocate for inclusive innovation, with a focus on expanding access within space technology. Her work supports small businesses, underrepresented communities, and those looking to engage in NASA’s tech pipeline, all while building meaningful connections and opportunities in her community.
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We’re getting ready for convention season, and you can feel the energy in this one.
We talk about what it’s like heading into a big convention, the excitement of being in the same space as the community, and finally getting to meet the people who listen every week. From past experiences to what we’re looking forward to this time around, this is a real look at why these events mean so much to us.
We also get into what it takes to actually make it work with kids. Traveling, navigating the crowds, keeping things organized, and still trying to enjoy the moment. If you’ve ever thought about going to a convention or you’re already planning your trip, there’s a lot here you’ll relate to.
Of course, we don’t stay on track the whole time. We somehow end up debating ideal pets and getting into the random superstitions we all still lowkey believe, because that’s just how these conversations go.
If you’re thinking about pulling up this year or you’ve been before, consider this your invite. Come find us, come say what’s up, and be part of it.
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We’re talking about something a lot of people still try to avoid, periods and puberty.
Terrin and Josselyn get into what it actually looks like to have these conversations with your kids, especially as blind moms raising girls who are trying to understand what’s happening to their bodies. From preparing for that first period to handling the emotions that come with it, this is one of those topics you can’t afford to ignore.
They share their own experiences, what worked, what didn’t, and how they approach it in a way that keeps things open instead of awkward or shame-filled. We talk hygiene, body changes, and the importance of making sure your kids feel comfortable asking questions without feeling embarrassed.
There’s also a real conversation around how these moments hit differently when you’re blind or raising a child who is, and why it matters to be intentional about how you explain things and build confidence early.
It’s honest, it’s needed, and it’s the kind of conversation more parents should be having out loud.
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Our Mom of the Month is here, and Kimberly from Komfort by K does not disappoint.
She joins us to talk about what it really looks like to build something from the ground up while raising a family and showing up for your kids every single day. Kimberly is a blind entrepreneur running multiple lanes at once, from comfort meals and baked goods to body butters and event planning, and she breaks down how she makes it all work.
We get into her story growing up with glaucoma, becoming a young mom, and figuring things out without a blueprint. She’s honest about the challenges, but also about the mindset it takes to keep moving when things don’t go how you planned.
And then there’s her role as a team mom. The stories alone are worth pressing play. Between the chaos, the pressure, and the moments that somehow turn hilarious after the fact, she’s fully in it for her kids and not backing down from anything that comes with it.
Kimberly brings a straight-up approach to everything she does. No excuses, just execution. If you’re trying to build something, hold it together at home, or just need to hear from someone who’s doing both at the same time, this one is going to hit.
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