The Rare Life

For disability parents, the New Year doesn’t always mean lofty resolutions or big changes. It might mean survival mode, holding boundaries, or simply getting through the day. In this episode, I’m sharing your thoughts on New Year’s resolutions—why they’re hard, how they shift, and what really matters when life is unpredictable. From survival mode to tentative hope, this is a conversation about giving yourself grace. If the traditional “new year, new me” doesn’t fit your life, this one’s for you. Links: Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update! Listen to Ep 108 on navigating the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Listen to Ep 109 on isolating at home during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Listen to Ep 110 on being inpatient during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups! Follow Kara on Instagram @hear_me_rare! Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!  

What if the hardest part of your year was also the one that shaped you the most? In this special mini-episode, I read submissions from the community that capture the resilience, heartache, and triumphs we’ve all experienced this year (including a few entries that count as both highs AND lows.) From the heartbreaking realities of denied services and exhausting diagnoses to the incredible wins of first smiles and newfound independence, it’s a powerful reminder that no matter how hard it gets, we’re never alone. Tune in for a dose of solidarity, and let’s close out 2024 together. Links: Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update! Listen to Ep 108 on navigating the holidays with Amanda Griffith-Atkins. Listen to Ep 109 on isolating at home during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Listen to Ep 110 on being inpatient during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups! Follow Kara on Instagram @hear_me_rare! Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!

What if the hardest part of your journey was the part no one saw? The silent suffering that happens behind closed doors, in the dark hours of the night, when the mask comes off and the tears flow. In this mini-episode, I’m joined by Kara Berasi, who shares her powerful poem, The Silent Suffering. We talk about the emotional weight of caregiving, the exhaustion of advocacy, and the struggle to be honest about the pain. We also cover the way that sharing through art can allow the people who love us to get a glimpse into these often unseen parts of our lives. If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of it all, alone, this one’s for you. Links: Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update! Listen to Ep 108 on navigating the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Listen to Ep 109 on isolating at home during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Listen to Ep 110 on being inpatient during the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups! Follow Kara on Instagram @hear_me_rare! Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!  

Holidays are supposed to be full of joy, right? But for disability parents, gift-giving can bring a whole mix of feelings: grief, frustration, and why did they buy this moments. Instead of magic, we’re juggling unconventional (or maybe not age-appropriate) toys for our kids, therapy equipment wrapped in bows, and family members who just don’t get it. In this episode, I’m replaying part of Ep 108 with Amanda Griffith-Atkins where we talk about the challenges of shopping for our disabled kids and managing those tricky expectations. We're diving into the heartbreak of gifts that miss the mark and the joy of gifts that actually make your kid light up (think Elmo toys and shiny balloons). If the holidays bring up all the complicated feels, this one’s for you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Links: Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update! Listen to Ep 108 on navigating the holidays with Amanda Griffith Atkins. Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups! Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life! Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode. Follow the Facebook page. Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions. Access the transcript on the website here. And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!