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You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship.

So… are you really “just friends”?

In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage.

We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you’ve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is.

We’ll talk about:
The seven biggest signs you’re actually in a situationship

Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity

Whether daily texting is already dating

How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment

Why “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fear

The difference between being friendly and being flirty

How to love someone without leading them on

Whether it’s okay to date someone else if you haven’t defined the relationship

How to know when it’s time to have the DTR conversation

Four practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrity

This isn’t a conversation about putting more rules around dating. It’s about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “What are we?”… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom.

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works.

Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage.

We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew.

We’ll talk about:
The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battle
Why “marriage will fix it” is one of the biggest lies Christian men believe
The difference between sobriety and actual freedom
What finally broke the cycle after countless “I’m done for good” moments
The one thing that consistently helps men get free
How to fight porn when the struggle started before puberty
What to do if you only watch “once in a while” but still feel stuck
How to talk to a future spouse about porn without destroying trust
How freedom changes dating, intimacy, and marriage
AI porn, fantasy chats, deepfakes, and what Gen Z is up against now
Whether total freedom is actually possible
This episode is not about shame. It is about truth, freedom, and what to do when you are tired of starting over.

If you spiraled this week, feel hopeless, or secretly think this is just who you are now, this conversation is for you.
Let’s talk about it 👇
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did.

This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time.

We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend 🫡), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective.

And yes… this conversation gets more honest than Part 1.

We’ll talk about:
- Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off
- When “getting to know someone” turns into leading them on
- If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out
- What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore
- Whether “friendship first” is wisdom or just indecision
- The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see
- What men actually think about a woman’s past and when it matters
- Whether there are sexual histories that become dealbreakers
- How to lead someone with shame from their past without becoming their therapist
- Where single Christian men actually draw the line physically while dating
- What to do when someone wants to push boundaries further than you do
- Christian dating hot takes the guys think need to die immediately

We also react to your comments from Part 1 in real time, including some very direct pushback from women.

So yes… some opinions got challenged.

If you are single, confused by Christian dating culture, or just trying to understand what is actually going on inside a Christian guy’s head, this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women?

Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty.

We’re talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective.

We’ll talk about:
Whether women are responsible for men’s lust

What modesty is actually about if it is not just “covering up”

What “don’t cause your brother to stumble” actually means in context

The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation

Whether modesty standards should change when you’re married

How Christian women practically think through what they wear

If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life

Why modesty conversations almost always target women and not men

This conversation is not about hiding your body or being ashamed of beauty. It is about conviction, identity, wisdom, and honoring God without fear, shame, or performance.

If modesty has ever felt confusing, controlling, legalistic, or honestly just exhausting, this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married?

In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage.

Nothing is off limits.

Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud.

We’ll talk about:
What is actually happening when you “get the ick”

Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries

What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning

How to recognize and respond to gaslighting

How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay

Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words

Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary

Why Jesus never got married even though God said it’s not good for man to be alone

How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation

Whether you have to take your husband’s last name

This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level.

If you’ve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll:
1. Fornication — sex before marriage
1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3–5; Heb 13:4

2. Adultery — sex with someone outside of your spouse
Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27–28; Heb 13:4

3. Polygamy — God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesn’t prescribe it
Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4–6; 1 Tim 3:2

4. Rape
Deut 22:25–27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10

5. Incest
Lev 18:6–18; Lev 20:11–21; 1 Cor 5:1

6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity
Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26–27; 1 Cor 6:9–10; 1 Tim 1:10

7. Bestiality
Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15–16

8. Prostitution
Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3–5; 1 Cor 6:15–16

9. Sexual immorality (porneia) — catch-all Greek term — lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography
Matt 5:27–28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3

10. Pagan sexual activity — sex tied to the worship of false gods or one’s own sexual gratification as an idol
Ex 34:15–16; Num 25:1–3; 1 Cor 10:7–8; Rev 2:14, 20

On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list “anything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.”
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.