Work Club 006 - Avoiding Conflict Is Killing Your Connection
What if the thing you’re avoiding is the key to the connection you’re craving?We all want real connection—but you can’t have intimacy if you’re avoiding conflict.In Episode 6 of Work Club, we’re talking conflict avoidance, peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, and the real cost of staying silent.From fights to forgiveness, we’re sharing the hard convos that brought healing—and why the connection you want might be on the other side of the one you’re avoiding.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00)- Intro(2:06) - Sam’s Revelation: Fear of Success(7:55) - Why do we tend to avoid conflict?(8:15) - Conflict Avoidance(10:54) - Avoiding Conflict is Avoiding Intimacy(11:40) - Peacemakers vs Peacekeepers(14:27) - What’s the hardest conversation you’ve ever had?(15:07) - Erin’s Convo (Commitment to connection)(17:35) - Ingram’s convo(18:45) - You can only control yourself(20:00) - Recovering after the convo(21:54) - Daniel’s hard conversations(24:38) - Every good thing you want is on the other side of a hard conversation(26:12) - Elles, Avoidance, & Grenades (consequences of avoidance)(28:00) - Relationship & Stewardship(28:25) - You won’t regret having hard convos(29:48) - Are you currently avoiding convos rn?(32:37) - Daniel & Elles’s Fight(37:40) - Early and Often=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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Work Club 005 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves
You don’t have to live by the lies you’ve believed—this episode is all about rewriting the story you tell yourself.We all carry stories—about our worth, our identity, and our place in the world. But what if the story playing in your head isn’t the one God’s telling?In this episode, we confront the lies that sneak into our self-talk: • Feeling like you’re not enough • Giving without getting anything back • Letting assumptions shape your relationships • Missing the small moments that could shift everythingAnd most importantly—we talk about how God’s grace rewrites the script.If you’ve ever struggled with shame, comparison, or feeling unseen, this one’s for you. Let’s replace false narratives with God’s truth and step into the freedom of who He’s really made us to be.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(3:00) - People are thinking the worst of me(4:40) - I could do that if ______(5:30) - I’m not doing enough(5:58) - Reciprocation - I don’t get what I give(7:10) - Everyone Deals with Negative Narratives(7:30) - Invited but Unwanted(9:17) - Assumption(11:00) - Daniel's Memo Pad Moment(16:32) - How do you switch gears?(17:52) - Sam: Grace EMPOWERS You(22:50) - Let God into the narrative(26:50) - YOU have to choose(27:40) - Too good to be true(29:40) - What is God’s narrative for you?=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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Work Club 004 - Shame Is Lying to You (And You Don’t Even Know It)
Shame doesn’t just make you feel bad—it messes with your head, distorts your identity, and makes you want to disappear. In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling it out. From secret struggles to perfectionism, we’re talking about the real ways shame shows up—and how Jesus sets us free.Ingram and Daniel get super honest about their own stories, how shame had them stuck, and how the Gospel broke through. We’re also unpacking the difference between guilt and shame (yes, there’s a huge difference), and why knowing who you are in Christ changes everything.If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide the messy parts of your life—this episode is for you.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:30) - What’s the Difference Between Guilt and Shame?(4:05) - Daniel’s Experience(6:32) - Shame Makes Us Hide(6:55) - Butt or Buck?(8:40) - Guilt: An Invitation Into Shame(9:30) - Ingram’s Relationship with Shame(12:10) - Shame & Sexual Sin(13:20) - Shame & Self-Punishment(13:30) - The Gospel – Jesus Took Our Punishment(16:00) - Shame & Identity(16:50) - Hiding – What Are Your Fig Leaves?(16:55) - Perfectionism(17:30) - Escapism(20:22) - Invisible(21:02) - Hypocritical – Shame Robs You AND Others(22:24) - Empty Yourself of You(24:58) - Repentance(25:55) - Are You Arguing a Case That’s Already Settled?(27:10) - Become Aware of Our Need for Jesus(28:01) - Genesis 3:20(29:05) - Colossians 2:13 – God Put Shame to Shame(30:18) - How Do We Overcome Shame?=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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Work Club 003 - Still Stuck? Here’s What’s Really Going On
Why do you still feel stuck, even when you’re trying to do all the right things?We all battle fear. Fear of failure. Fear of not being enough. Fear of being too much.In episode 3 of Work Club, we’re naming the fears that keep us stuck—and exposing the lies behind them. From imposter syndrome to hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the pressure to be perfect—we’re calling out the real stuff that shapes our relationships, our faith, and our future.This isn’t self-help. This is surrender.Because if you want to walk in freedom, you’ve got to face what’s been holding you back.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Welcome to Episode 3!(1:32) - Fear: The #1 Thing Holding You Back(3:15) - Hyper-Independence vs. Codependency: The Switch(6:03) - Fear of Insignifigance(8:37) - Self-Sufficiency Will Only Keep You Stuck(10:12) - Imposter Syndrome: Who Do You Really Think You Are?(11:50) - Sam’s Hot Take (13:34) - Trusting God & Making Moves(17:54) - Face Your Fears(20:01) - Go ’til You Hear a “No”(20:58) - Logic & Reason(22:57) - Dig Deeper: What’s The Root?(23:50) - People-Pleasing(24:48) - Ingram: Fearless & Resilient(29:48) - Trusting God In The Process(31:20) - Strategy In The Kingdom(34:20) - Every Good Thing Comes From God(35:12) - The Unknown=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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Work Club 002 - Emotional Baggage Doesn’t Carry Itself
We all carry baggage. The question is—what are you doing with it?In episode 2 of Work Club, we’re diving into the emotional weight we carry from past experiences, and how it shows up in our relationships today. From defensiveness in conflict to perfectionism, fear, and feeling like your needs don’t matter—we’re unpacking the hidden stuff that’s easy to ignore but hard to live with.This isn’t therapy, but it’s real. And it’s what healing looks like when you do it in community.We’re not just talking about what we should set down—we’re sharing what we’re working on laying down right now, in real time.Because if you want to live in God’s design for sex and relationships, you’ve got to get honest about what’s actually in your bag.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:21) - Identifying emotional baggage (2:35) - The role of defensiveness in hiding emotional baggage(12:00) - How to regulate defensiveness and your emotions in the heat of the moment(12:32) - Sam’s athletic story(14:37) - Learning and recovering from a blow-up moment (19:15) - Airport baggage analogy(21:18) - The value of community when dealing with emotional baggage(23:54) - What’s one thing you’re carrying that you’re working on setting down?(24:08) - Setting down perfectionism(25:44) - Setting down fear (28:00) - Setting down overwhelm (29:41) - Setting down insignificance (31:54)- Setting down not having needs=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com
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