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In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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⏰ Timestamps ⏰
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Links:

Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 

Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 
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Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc 

God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.

In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.

We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced.

And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.

We’ll talk about:
Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed

The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out

Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out”

How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts

Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships

How to communicate boundaries without making it weird

What it’s like dating while holding that line

Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it

What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past

What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait

This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction.

If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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⏰ Timestamps ⏰
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Links:

Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 

Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 
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Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc 

God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience?

Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud:
What if this isn’t right?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements.

We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding.

We’ll talk about:
The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right

Whether they ignored red flags and why

The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in

How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it”

The fear of disobeying God by walking away

What people said and how they handled the questions

The lies they had to fight after everything ended

How to trust your ability to hear God again

What healing actually looked like in the aftermath

How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret

This episode is not about shaming anyone. It’s not about creating fear around commitment.

It’s for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if it’s too late to pause.

A broken engagement is not a broken future.

Let’s talk about it 👇
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⏰ Timestamps ⏰
(0:00) — Intro
(1:36) — Why we're talking about broken engagements
(3:54) — How did you meet the person you were engaged to?
(4:55) — How long were you dating before the engagement?
(5:10) — How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal?
(6:22) — How long were you engaged before it ended?
(7:31)— Who made the final call to end it?
(7:59) — What was God teaching you in that season?
(9:00) — How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice?
(14:00) — Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship?
(16:01) — What lies from the enemy did you have to fight?
(18:23) — How to respond when people ask what happened
(21:10) — Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media
(24:10) — How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement?
(27:54) — The role of therapy in healing
(29:42) — Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance
(31:24) — Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak
(35:01) — What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 — Stop feeding your pain on social media
(40:10) — How to know if you should call it off or stick it out
(43:03) — Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage
(44:06) — Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right
(46:28) — The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it
(49:46) — A broken engagement is not a broken future
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in.

If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier.

In this episode we react to stories like:
The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy… and the next day he got arrested

The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs

The date that somehow ended with a trip to the dean’s office at a Christian college

The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldn’t date her

The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him

The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom

The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch

Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary tales about manipulation, immaturity, and confusing spirituality with wisdom.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your Christian dating experience was the weirdest one out there… it probably wasn’t.

🎧 Let’s talk about it
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.