Hey there, darling! My name is Jess. There was a time that all I wanted in the world was a little farm where I could raise my family and grow our food. Now, th...
Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! I’m your host, Jessica Sowards—my friends call me Jess—and around here, we talk about all things homesteading: growing food, raising animals, preserving and preparing what we harvest, and living more mindfully in relationship with each other and with the Earth. This week, I’m sharing something that’s been heavy on my heart—how we care for our minds in a world that feels loud, fast, and anxious. I’ve been spending long hours in the garden, weeding and thinking, and it led me to reflect on the nervous system, trauma, and the way we sometimes try to bully our way into peace instead of nurturing it. I’m talking about what it means to pursue a sound mind—what that really looks like on a practical, daily level—and how I’ve found surprising healing in something as simple as crochet. This is a conversation about choosing slow and quiet in a world demanding fast and loud. It’s about protecting your peace, holding space for healing, and doing the inner work that creates a secure home for ourselves and the ones we love. Thank you for spending time with me today. If you’ve found encouragement here, consider supporting the podcast on Patreon, where you can listen early and join our monthly Q&A. As always— I bless you, until next time.
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How to be Human
Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! I don't have a neatly written description for this podcast because things are hectic here on the homestead and I'd rather just get you this audio this week, even if the upload isn't perfect. Thanks for understanding! I hope y'all enjoy this one I recorded in the fall and I can't wait to be back next week. Thanks for spending this time with me today. If you love these podcastsand want to support the our homestead, be sure to check out our Patreon, where we post episodes early and do a monthly live Q&A.
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Youve Gotta Eat The Hobby of Food
Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! Food isn’t just something we need—it’s something we get to enjoy. In this episode, I’m diving into the idea of food as both a necessity and a passion. For generations, people spent most of their time and energy simply securing food for their families, but in today’s world, we’ve outsourced so much of that work in the name of convenience. What are we doing with all that extra time? And what happens when we take back some of that effort—when we slow down, grow what we can, and put intention into cooking real, nourishing meals? I’m sharing my thoughts on why it’s okay (and even good) to spend time thinking about food, how I’ve balanced making things from scratch while still allowing room for convenience, and why feeding people is one of the most beautiful ways to show love. Thanks for spending this time with me today. If you love these conversations and want to support the podcast, be sure to check out our Patreon, where we post episodes early and do a monthly live Q&A.
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Homesteading Chat with Jesse Bickley
Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! Today, I’m joined by my good friend Jesse Bickley for a conversation about homesteading, raising animals, and the realities of growing your own food. Jesse and his family also homestead here in South Carolina, and over the years since we've moved here, they’ve become some of our closest friends. In this episode, we chat about the real costs of homesteading, why people start (and sometimes stop), and the deeper value beyond just saving money. Rising grocery prices have a lot of folks considering chickens, gardens, and food preservation—but does it actually save money? We dive into the true cost of homegrown food, why access matters just as much as price, and the unexpected benefits that come with this lifestyle. We also talk about hard decisions on the farm, keeping livestock manageable, and how your "why" should always guide your choices—not just what seems practical or popular. This episode is full of real talk, a few laughs, and plenty of stories from the farm. Whether you're just starting out or deep in the homesteading journey, I hope it encourages you to think about what truly matters in your own home and how to build a life that reflects those values. Thanks for being here—we’re so grateful for this community! 🌱💛 If you’d like to get early access to episodes and join our community, check out our Patreon
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Homestead Chatting with Morgan Gold
Hey y’all, welcome back to the Roots and Refuge Podcast! Today, I’m joined by my dear friend Morgan Gold of Gold Shaw Farm for an honest and fun conversation about homesteading—the dream, the reality, and everything in between. Morgan and I started our homesteading journeys around the same time and have been good friends ever since starting YouTube. Over the years, we’ve learned a lot about what works, what doesn’t, and the importance of staying flexible as life changes. In this episode, we talk about the biggest surprises of homesteading, scaling up (and scaling back), and learning to prioritize what truly brings joy on the homestead. We also chat about Morgan’s unexpected love for goats (despite swearing he’d never get them), the importance of knowing your “why,” and how to avoid getting swept up in doing too much, too fast. Whether you're just dreaming of a homestead, knee-deep in farm chores, or somewhere in between, we hope this conversation reminds you that there’s no one right way to do this life. It’s about finding what works for you, embracing the process, and making space for the things that truly matter. Thanks for being here—we’re so glad to share this journey with you! 🌱💛 If you’d like to get early access to episodes and join our community, check out our Patreon
Hey there, darling! My name is Jess. There was a time that all I wanted in the world was a little farm where I could raise my family and grow our food. Now, that's exactly what exists outside my door. In watching it unfold, a new dream was formed in my heart – to share this beautiful life with others and teach them the lessons we've learned along the way. Welcome to the Roots and Refuge podcast, friend. I am so glad you're here.
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