Welcome to the Send Parenting Podcast. I'm your neurodiverse host, Dr Olivia Kessel, and, more importantly, I am a mother to my wonderfully neurodivergent daugh...
EP 103: Dealing With Conflict At Home with Sarah Fisher
Episode 103Ever wondered how to transform your parenting approach to better support neurodivergent children? Sarah Fisher, an adoptive mom and author of "Connective Parenting," joins us for our milestone 100th episode to share her insightful experiences. Sarah opens up about her journey with her son, revealing the remarkable impact of Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) techniques in managing challenging behaviors. Together, we unpack the importance of shifting our focus as parents from correcting our children's behaviors to understanding our own reactions, paving the way for more harmonious family dynamics.Experience the power of parenting through connection and understanding as we explore how emotional regulation can lead to a calmer home environment. From personal stories of managing stress during menopause to handling holiday-induced challenges with neurodiverse children, this episode is packed with strategies for both parents and children to thrive. We emphasize the significance of reconnecting with our kids after conflicts, teaching them resilience and emotional management through lived experiences rather than mere words.Our conversation touches on the evolving landscape of modern parenting, where emotional awareness takes center stage. Insights from our recent Connective Parenting conference underscore the benefits of a child-paced approach, allowing us to meet our children where they are and support their unique needs. We also delve into the challenges of gaining support from family and friends unfamiliar with this approach, sharing success stories that prove change is possible. Celebrate with us as we reflect on this journey and look forward to future discussions that promise continued growth and shared understanding within our Send Parenting community.www.sendparenting.com
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EP 102: Disengaged In School with Dr. Chris Bagley
Episode 102 What if our education system could truly embrace individuality and foster genuine growth for every child? Join us for our 100th episode of the Send Parenting Podcast, featuring the astute Dr. Chris Bagley, who argues for revolutionary changes in how we perceive and implement education. Dr. Bagley, a educational psychologist and advocate for neurodiverse children, sheds light on the limitations of traditional schooling methods and the rise of home education as a viable alternative. Together, we unravel ways to tap into each child's unique potential, offering a fresh perspective on educational reform that champions inclusivity and the joy of learning.In this landmark episode, we tackle the pressing issues faced by young learners navigating an education system that often shifts focus from intrinsic motivation to extrinsic pressures. Dr. Bagley dives deep into the consequences of this shift, such as marginalization and exclusion, urging for a reevaluation of what belonging and competence should look like in schools. We explore the empowering potential of alternative learning communities and democratic approaches, which prioritize student agency and redefine success beyond conventional metrics. It's a conversation that promises to challenge your views on what education should achieve.With Dr. Bagley's insights, we explore the crucial role of consent and self-determination in education, advocating for systems that engage students on their terms. The pioneering work of States of Mind is highlighted as a beacon of hope, demonstrating the transformative impact of co-constructed learning experiences. This episode makes a compelling case for education systems that nurture a child’s autonomy and prepare them for the world they will inherit, sparking a necessary conversation about reimagining what it means to educate and empower the next generation.Click here for Dr Chris Bagley Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com
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EP: 101 Insights on Nutrition for Neurodivergent Children with Lucinda Miller
Episode 101Unlock the secrets to nurturing neurodivergent minds with the wisdom of Lucinda Miller, founder and clinical lead of NatureDoc, as we celebrate our monumental 100th episode. Lucinda returns to discuss her groundbreaking book, "Brain Brilliance," a nutritional guide tailored for neurodivergent individuals. From her beloved Cherry Sleepy Smoothie to ingenious recipes like margarita pizza waffles, Lucinda shares how nutritious meals can transform emotional regulation, anxiety, and sleep for children with conditions like ADHD, autism, and more.Discover the profound link between gut health and brain function, and the role of the gut microbiome in shaping mood, memory, and behavior. Lucinda offers practical strategies for enhancing gut health without invasive tests, emphasizing the importance of dietary diversity, fermented foods, and probiotics. By fostering openness to new foods, these approaches aim to alleviate stress and anxiety in neurodivergent children, nurturing a curious palate and a resilient mind.Lastly, we tackle the critical oversight in medical education regarding nutrition, shining a light on how this gap affects patient care. Lucinda and I discuss the pivotal role nutritionists play in bridging this divide, offering insights and support to families navigating neurodiversity. Join our SEND Parenting Tribe's private WhatsApp community for support, shared experiences, and celebrating each other's journey through the complex world of neurodiversity.Click here for Lucinda Miller Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com
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EP 100: RSVP to the Celebration event 🥳
Episode 100 week long free eventRSVP now to be part of this transformative event.What if there were ways to make the complex journey of parenting neurodiverse children a bit smoother? Join us for a week-long celebration of our 100th episode milestone on the Send Parenting Podcast, where we're offering just that. Dr Olivia Kessel, inspired by her own journey as a parent to a neurodivergent daughter, welcomes a stellar lineup of experts ready to share insights and strategies tailored for the SEND community. Dr. Lucinda Miller kicks things off with her invaluable expertise on the intersection of nutrition and neurodiversity, gleaned from her latest book, "Brain Brilliance." Dr. Chris Bagley follows with his fresh perspectives on re-engaging with education, promising to reignite your passion for learning alongside your children.As the week progresses, Sarah Fisher will guide us through the art of handling home conflicts using nonviolent resistance techniques. At the same time, Dr. Marianne reveals top parenting tips from her popular podcast, "How Not to Screw Up Your Kids." Finally, Chrissa Wadlow and Kelly Jarvis from the Sunshine Support Group wrap up the celebration by equipping you with essential strategies for navigating SEND in education. Although pre-recorded, each session includes live chats, offering a unique opportunity to interact with me and our esteemed guests and connect with fellow parents. Don’t miss this chance to celebrate, learn, and empower yourself with practical tools and communal support. RSVP now to be part of this transformative event.Join the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com
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EP 99: Supporting Neurodiverse Children with Amanda Ashy
Episode 99Amanda Ashy's inspiring journey from television producer to a champion for neurodiverse children offers a unique perspective on parenting. Join us as Amanda, a clinical nutritionist, mindfulness expert, and yoga teacher, shares how she transformed her life and career to focus on family regulation, connection, and resilience. Get ready to uncover the profound impact of mindfulness and somatics in nurturing behaviour patterns and resilience, as Amanda highlights the importance of understanding the whole body, including emotions and nutrition, for achieving well-being.This episode navigates the emotional complexities faced by neurodivergent children and the phenomenon of masking in school settings. Amanda provides insights into how these challenges often manifest at home, offering practical tools to decode children's behaviour and map out their unique experiences. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, we explore the evolution of parenting styles and how connecting with oneself can foster a loving environment for children. Amanda introduces the Parent Reset Program, a transformative initiative guiding parents from fear-based to love-based discipline to nurture deep connections and harmonious relationships.As we journey through the multifaceted world of parenting, discover empowering strategies for self-care and boundary-setting. Learn how to maintain calm during challenging conversations and the art of co-regulation. Amanda emphasises the significance of fostering an environment where neurodiverse children can thrive, offering tips on sensory management, dietary adjustments, and soothing routines. We conclude with a heartfelt call to choose love over fear, celebrate the power of community and invite listeners to join our private Send Parenting WhatsApp community for support and shared wisdom.Amanda Ashy Instagram LinkJoin the SEND Parenting Community on Whatsapp. Either click here or send a message to +447856915105 , and I will personally add you to the private group, where we can connect and support each other.www.sendparenting.com
Welcome to the Send Parenting Podcast. I'm your neurodiverse host, Dr Olivia Kessel, and, more importantly, I am a mother to my wonderfully neurodivergent daughter, Alexandra, who really inspired this podcast. As a veteran in navigating the world of neurodiversity, I have uncovered a wealth of misinformation, alongside many answers and solutions that were never taught to me in medical school or in any of the parenting handbooks.Each week on this podcast, I will be bringing the experts to your ears to empower you on your parenting crusade.