What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

In honor of Women's History Month, this "Deep Dive" series highlights some of our past interview episodes about raising daughters.

How do we raise our daughters to feel empowered, rather than helpless, in the face of gender bias? ⁠Dr. Jo-Ann Finkelstein⁠, PhD, author of book ⁠SEXISM AND SENSIBILITY⁠, offers parenting tips to prepare our girls for the modern world.

Dr. Finkelstein, Amy, and Margaret discuss:

The limits of the "girl power" line of thinking

How to teach girls what is and isn't in their control when it comes to sexism

How to recognize and combat sexism in our own parenting

Here's where you can find Dr. Finkelstein:

⁠www.joannfinkelstein.com⁠

@joannfinkelstein.phd on IG/TikTok

Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD - Author on FB

@finkeljo on Twitter

Buy SEXISM AND SENSIBILITY: ⁠https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593581162⁠

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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What does it really mean to be a Black single mother in America? Why are the stories we hear and tell about that experience so often incomplete?

Margaret talks with cultural critic, writer, and editor Jamilah Lemieux, author of Black. Single. Mother: Real-Life Tales of Longing and Belonging.

Jamilah discusses the fears she initially had about writing openly about single motherhood—and how the process ultimately became one of healing, honesty, and connection.

Together, they explore the realities behind the stereotypes surrounding Black single mothers and the complicated mix of love, resilience, struggle, and community that shapes these experiences.

Here's where you can find Jamilah Lemieux:

https://www.jamilahlemieux.com/

@jamilahlemieux on IG/Threads/X

facebook.com/jamilahlemieux

Buy BLACK. SINGLE. MOTHER: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593447543

See the locations and dates for Jamilah's book tour here!

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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Are screens ruining our kids' childhoods? Is AI going to rot our brains in the next thirty days? Or are these the latest examples of a very human tendency: the catastrophizing of change?

From the dawn of the printing press to the Satanic panic over heavy metal lyrics, we explore the long history of social panics, find familiar patterns, and discuss our findings, including:


Why parents are often thrust onto the front lines of new technology fears


Why each generation believes the newest media will cause moral or cognitive decline


The role of mass media and politics in amplifying fear


How parents can keep perspective while still setting healthy limits on technology

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Brittany Wong for HuffPost: New Study Shows This Social Platform Can Shift Your Politics To The Right — And It Happens Very Fast

Wikipedia: definition of a moral panic

Jo Ellen Parker for Liberal Arts Online: Socrates on Technology

Christie Stratos: Why Did the Victorians Think It Was Dangerous for Women to Read Novels and Newspapers?

Ana Vogrinčič for Media Research Journal: The Novel-Reading Panic in 18thCentury in England: An Outline of an Early Moral Media Panic

Sarah Durn for Atlas Obscura: How Gruesome Penny Dreadfuls Got Victorian Children Reading

Miller Kern for Ball Bearings Magazine: The Downfall of Society

PS Art Books: The Comic Book Burnings of the 1940s: A Cultural Firestorm

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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Based on a recent listener question about letting go as your kids get older and gain more independence, we're highlighting some of our past interview episodes that address this topic.

Anxiety is a natural response to stress. Sometimes it’s even useful, like when it alerts us to danger. But when anxiety grips our children, they often don’t (can’t) explain how they’re feeling, and their inner turmoil can take over.

In this episode we discuss:

coping strategies for all ages and stages

how anxiety in children can be easy to miss

the negative behaviors anxious kids might exhibit 

why letting our kids avoid anxiety-causing situations is counterproductive

how anxiety "lives in the future”

We also interview ⁠Dr. Lisa Damour⁠ about her book ⁠Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls⁠. Dr. Damour’s book is full of empathetic insight and useful takeaways for helping our anxious daughters (and sons).

Here’s links to other research and writing discussed in this episode:

Lindsay Holmes for Huffington Post Life: ⁠10 Things People Get Wrong About Anxiety ⁠

Liz Matheis for anxiety.org: ⁠Identifying Signs of Anxiety in Children ⁠

CDC: ⁠Data and Statistics on Children's Mental Health⁠

Metropolitan CBT: ⁠About Anxiety⁠ 

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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What do we misunderstand about teen mothers? How does stigma contribute to the difficulties teen mothers face? This week we're talking to Susan Sutton about her nonprofit The Ember Project, which supports teen and early mothers through mentorship, financial literacy, education support, and small but powerful financial grants.

Susan shares her own story of becoming a mother in 10th grade and how that experience shaped her mission to break cycles of generational poverty and teen pregnancy stigma.

We discuss:


The role of teen fathers and the importance of shared accountability


Why $500 can be the difference between dropping out and graduating for a teen mom


Mentorship as a bridge between survival mode and stability

Here's where you can find Susan:

www.theemberproject.org


"The Ember Project Podcast" wherever you get your podcasts

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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