252: Email Q&A! Orgasms Through Mindfulness, Erotic Literature, and Being Divided on Having More Kids
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This week, we’re tackling your real questions from the inbox. From navigating orgasms through mindfulness, to wrestling with erotic literature as a Christian, to the heartbreak of being divided on having more kids- we’re digging deep into the struggles that couples face behind closed doors.
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Episodes:
Opposites: Love Languages Episode 102
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part one
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part two
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5 Love Languages Quiz
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
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5 Love Languages Book
Better Sex Through Mindfulness Book
Awaken Love
Writing Erotica Guide
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251: Myth Busters
We’re busting some of the biggest myths around sex and intimacy in marriage- from “sex should be just like the movies” to “men always want it more” to “you’ll just automatically know what to do in bed.” We’ll unpack the lies, share some laughs, and point you back to the truth God designed for marriage!
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Links from today’s episode:
Higher Desire Wife episode
Lower Desire Husband episode
Christian Sex Therapy: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
Christian Friendly Sex Positions sex position cards
Passionista book
Starting Life Together Bundle
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250: Is Your Phone Ruining Your Marriage?
Is your phone stealing from your marriage? In this episode, we unpack how tech can quietly kill intimacy, connection, and trust - and share practical ways to set boundaries, guard your heart, and put your spouse before your screen.
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Dwell Audio Bible App: use our link for 25% off!
Episode 246: Is This Normal Part 1
Episode 247: Is This Normal Part 2
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249: Friendship, Sex, and the Way of Jesus with Justin Whitmel Earley
This episode is sponsored by the Dwell Audio Bible App! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off. Join us and ‘press play’ on scripture!
Join Alana and Kyle as they sit down with author, lawyer, and speaker Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why friendship is essential- not just for our faith, but for our marriages and sex lives too. If you’ve ever wondered why marriage alone can’t meet every relational need, or how to take the first step out of loneliness, this conversation is for you.
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Links from today’s episode:
The Body Teaches The Soul
Habits Of The Household
Intentional Fatherhood Podcast
Justinwhitmelearley.com
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248: When 'The Ick' Creeps In
Ever had that random moment where your spouse does something totally normal… and it suddenly makes you cringe? Welcome to “the ick.” The KS Team unpacks why it happens, how it can sneak into your sex life, and practical ways to move past it so you can rebuild connection, attraction, and intimacy.
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We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like:
• Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage?
• How can we keep passion alive years later?
• What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want?
With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life.
Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.