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Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

Emily & Johnny Spigelmire | Christian Marriage Recovery Coaches
Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy
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  • Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

    151 | Resurrection Life for Your Marriage

    30-03-2026 | 6 Min.
    In this episode, we reflect on the sacred weight of Passion Week, and invite you to pause and turn your eyes toward the transformative final days of Jesus’s earthly life.

     

    From the triumphant shouts of Palm Sunday to the agonizing solitude of Gethsemane and the ultimate sacrifice at the Cross, this week is a reminder that the path to redemption always requires a death.

     

    We reflect on the gravity of what Jesus endured for us, acknowledging that without the shadow of Good Friday, there could be no glorious dawn of Easter Sunday.

     

    In this episode, we explore how the powerful truth of the resurrection offers a path forward for those navigating the pain of sexual betrayal in their marriages.

     

    Much like the disciples at the empty tomb, you are invited to stop looking for life among the dead remnants of the past.

     

    By letting go of what once was, you create space for Christ’s resurrection power to breathe new life into your relationship.

     

    Join us as we walk through these final days of our Lord, finding deep, abiding hope in the victory of the empty tomb and the promise of renewal for your marriage.

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

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    RESOURCES:     

    Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

     

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 33.The Greatest Gift at Christmas: A 12-Stop Journey To God’s Plan for Redemption

    Episode 79. Redeeming What Was Lost, Stolen, or Given Away Through Adultery

     

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  • Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

    150 | Are You Weaponizing the Bible in Recovery from Infidelity?

    23-03-2026 | 24 Min.
    As Christ followers, we absolutely want to use the scriptures as our primary guide for living our lives. Afterall, as it says in 2 Tim. 3:16-17, all scripture is God breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training, in righteousness so that the servant of God may be equipped for every good work.

     

    We love God’s Word, but sometimes we can use scripture as a weapon.

     

    On today’s show, we’ll talk about what it means to weaponize scripture against our spouse while we are healing and recovering from the effects of a marriage shattered by sexual betrayal.

     

    We’ll define what weaponizing the Bible is, show you some examples of what it looks like, and offer solutions for using scripture to promote peace and healing while recovering from the effects of infidelity in your marriage.

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

    💚TIP JAR If this episode brought you hope or encouragement, please leave us a little blessing to help us keep our content ad-free!

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

     

    RESOURCES:     

    Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

     

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 69. 5 Things a Betrayed Wife Needs...(Series) #5 Spiritual Leadership

    Episode 132.12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Markers 10, 11, and 12)

     

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  • Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

    149 | 4 Ways To Go The Extra Mile When Recovering From Sexual Betrayal

    16-03-2026 | 30 Min.
    We’ve walked the hard road of betrayal and addiction, and we know that half-measures simply don’t cut it when you are fighting for the heart of your marriage. True healing isn’t about just stopping the bad behavior—it’s about actively pursuing the life God intended for your covenant, even when the path is difficult.

     

    Today, we’re talking about what it really takes to go the extra mile. We’re discussing why settling for the bare minimum keeps so many couples stuck, and how leaning into the uncomfortable work is exactly what separates those who survive from those who truly thrive in restoration.

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

    💚TIP JAR If this episode brought you hope or encouragement, please leave us a little blessing to help us keep our content ad-free!

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

     

    RESOURCES:     

    Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

     

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 49. Sobriety vs. Recovery After Porn-Fueled Infidelity

    Episode 140. How Well Do You Really Know Your Spouse When Infidelity Becomes Your Reality

     

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  • Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

    148 | Are You Helping or Hindering Your Wife's Betrayal Trauma Recovery?

    09-03-2026 | 24 Min.
    In our coaching practice, we see patterns emerge in different areas that tell a bigger story about what is going on in the minds husbands who have betrayed, and their traumatized wives.

     

    Today we are going to talk about the scenario of a husband making suggestions for the recovery and healing of his wife. This is tricky ground. The husband’s motivation can come from a place of genuine concern or from something more self-serving. Is either one of these approaches helpful?  

     

    We’ll unpack this quandary, and give you some hope for working out this issue in a way that pleases God and gives him the glory.

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

    💚TIP JAR If this episode brought you hope or encouragement, please leave us a little blessing to help us keep our content ad-free!

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

     

    RESOURCES:     

    Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

     

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 22. How Long Will This Hurt? Experiencing The 5 Stages of Grief Through the Lens of Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 87. Can’t We Just Get Back to Normal? Shortest Path to True Intimacy After Sexual Betrayal

     

    NEXT STEPS:    

    ✔️FOLLOW so you don’t miss a show!    

    ✔️Leave a 5-star rating & written review on Apple Podcast.

    ✔️ You can connect with us at [email protected].
  • Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy

    147 | Did You Ever Really Love Me? Facing the Heartache of Sexual Betrayal

    02-03-2026 | 24 Min.
    Today, we want to talk about an extremely painful question betrayed wives ask their unfaithful husbands.

     

    It’s a question that torments a wife when looking at the history of her marriage through the lens of infidelity.

     

    Those memories of special times spent together - vacations, family events, wedding anniversaries - are tainted by the new knowledge that she wasn’t his one and only love.

     

    She can’t wrap her mind around what his sexual betrayal means for their relationship and it’s devastating to imagine him engaging in sexual or emotional attachments with anyone else, whether on a screen or in person.

     

    This question is, “Did you ever really love me?”

     

    We have a raw conversation over this question from our own experience; finding some answers and also finding hope in Jesus Christ’s unfailing love for us!

     

    We pray this blesses you,

     

    Johnny and Emily

     

    💚TIP JAR If this episode brought you hope or encouragement, please leave us a little blessing to help us keep our content ad-free!

    💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com

    💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, beyondbrokenvows.com/partner

    💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com

     

    RESOURCES:     

    Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

    Covenant Eyes Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only)

     

    RELATED EPISODES:

    Episode 92. Dying to Self: Transformational Moments in Recovery from Sexual Betrayal

    Episode 136. Stuck in a Rut: 6 Traps that Hinder Recovery for an Unfaithful Husband

     

    NEXT STEPS:    

    ✔️FOLLOW so you don’t miss a show!    

    ✔️Leave a 5-star rating & written review on Apple Podcast.

    ✔️ You can connect with us at [email protected].

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***Top 1.5% Global Podcast***Dear Betrayed,Are you in shock? Confused, devastated, hurt, angry and feeling like you are not enough? Do you feel like it must be your fault, like you should have somehow seen the signs? Are you grieving the death of the marriage you thought you had?Dear Betrayer,Have you been believing the lie that if people knew what was really in your heart and mind, they would turn their back on you? Have you been convinced that your wife and family would leave you and you would lose everything if/when you came clean? Beloved, do you both feel like your marriage is over?Well, you’re right. That marriage full of secrets and lies IS over. But now there is hope for an honest and transparent marriage - one full of trust, safety, connection, forgiveness, acceptance, and intimacy that you’ve never known before. Bold statement, right? You may be thinking, “No way!” That’s okay. We understand…Hi, we are Johnny and Emily Spigelmire and we have been where you are...As a result of adultery fueled by pornography, the marriage vows we had exchanged as starry-eyed newlyweds and had worked so hard to keep were eventually shattered. We’ve been through hell and back. But we are here, together, to let you know that this devastation we experienced was actually a gift.Of course, we didn’t see it that way at first and you probably don’t either. But, through a commitment to recovery, our faith in God, and our hope for redemption, we set out on a journey of healing, and we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned with you. We now have a marriage that continually blows our minds, and we give God all the glory!So, if you’re ready to move from heartbreak and pain to hope and healing, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and join us on a journey of faith as we talk through difficult questions like;Is there hope for our marriage?Can I fix all the damage I’ve done?Can I ever trust again?Is true intimacy even possible?We will also do deep dives into the topics of:* Isolation* Guilt and Shame* Anger* Rejection* Addiction* Trauma* Body Image* Triggers* Communication* And more…Our story, like yours, is a messy one. But, with God’s help, it is possible to recover what was lost, stolen, or given away. We know this because God has turned the ashes of our lives into something beautiful and we believe he can do that for you too.You can connect with us at:[email protected]://insider.beyondbrokenvows.com/https://coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com/We would love to be part of your journey to healing and wholeness!
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