Buddhism Beyond Belief with Susan Piver

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In this episode, I explore the third step of the Noble Eightfold Path, Right Speech, and why it might more accurately be called Right Listening. I begin with a story about the so-called “Marcus Syndrome”, the habit of using someone else’s speaking time to prepare your reply. From there, I revisit Right View and Right Intention, and how the way we hold our inner world naturally shapes the words we send out into the world.
We look at the classical categories of unskillful speech and then discuss four questions you can ask yourself before you speak. At the heart of it all is the rare and vulnerable skill of listening.  I also reflect briefly on a teaching from the Heart Sutra about how one’s capacity to listen can create deeper insight in others.

Highlights
The “Marcus Syndrome” and the illusion that we are listening when we are really rehearsing
How Right View and Right Intention give rise to Right Speech
Why listening may be the highest communication skill
The four forms of unskillful speechLying, including half truths and things we repeat without certainty
Abusive speech, and the difference between harm and skillful anger
Divisive speech that separates people from one another
Idle speech that fills space without purpose

Four questions to ask before speakingIs it true
Is it beneficial
Is it clear
Is it timely

The power of presence and how good listening is contagious

Music After Party
A Change Is Gonna Come by Sam Cooke
I share why this song feels like a masterwork of sorrow and strength. It is a statement of grief and hope held in the same breath.
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Fearless Creativity: A Meditation and Writing Retreat 
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When I first started my own business years ago, I was full of doubt, excitement, fear, and hope, often all at the same time. Out of nowhere, a major opportunity landed in my lap that could have launched everything forward. There was just one problem. I did not respect the work of the person offering it. In this episode, I reflect on that moment and how a single sentence from my meditation teacher changed the way I understand right intention, karma, and the mysterious consequences of our actions.
This conversation explores right intention through personal experience and Buddhist teachings, moving from practical self examination to a much larger, more mysterious view of how our actions ripple through the world. I also share a personal story about illness, healing, and what it means to work with karma without knowing how or when it will resolve.

Highlights

The early days of my business and an opportunity that forced a difficult ethical decision
A Tibetan Buddhist teaching that reframed how I think about success and failure
What right intention really means beyond good outcomes
Right view and the radical idea of interconnectedness
The three cycles of Buddhist teaching and how each understands intention
How our actions move into the world like wave forms, not straight lines
A personal story about injury, illness, and how it impacted my view of karma
Three ways to understand right intention in daily life
Letting go of expectations while still acting with care and responsibility

Music After Party

I share one of my all time favorites, Bobby Blue Bland’s recording from 1961, Two Steps from the Blues. I talk about why this album is such a turning point in blues and R & B history, and why Bland’s voice remains unforgettable to me. I also reflect on hearing him live while working at Antone’s in Austin, the reverence he inspired, and the joy of recently meeting his son, Rodd Bland, who continues the legacy in his own powerful way.
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Fearless Creativity: A Meditation and Writing Retreat 
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In this episode, I begin a conversation about the Fourth Noble Truth, the Noble Eightfold Path, and its first step, Right View. I review the first three Noble Truths and reflect on how Buddhism is often misunderstood as a tool for stress reduction, when it is actually a profound path of liberation from suffering. I explore how suffering arises not simply from loss or disappointment, but from grasping. I share why Right View is the essential foundation that allows the rest of the path to unfold with coherence and meaning.
Highlights
Why Buddhism is more than mindfulness or stress reduction
The Four Noble Truths and suffering as dissatisfaction rooted in grasping
Right View as the foundation of the Noble Eightfold Path
Relative and absolute perspectives on loving kindness and non-duality
Meditation as letting go, presence, and openness
Mentions
The Four Noble Truths and The Middle Way: Foundations of the Journey, episode 5 of Buddhism Beyond Belief
The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships by Susan Piver
The Heart of Unconditional Love: A Powerful New Approach to Loving-Kindness Meditation by Tulku Thondup
The Play Of Thought by Kyabje Dudjom Rinpoche
Music
I share a personal story about how Bruce Springsteen’s “Dancing in the Dark” changed my life, and I offer the song as this episode’s after party music.
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Fearless Creativity: A Meditation and Writing Retreat 
Join me at Drala Mountain Center in the Colorado Rockies for Fearless Creativity
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This morning, the Open Heart Project Sangha gathered as we do every day to meditate and reflect together. The group was larger than usual, a clear sign of how shaken many of us are by what is happening in the United States right now.
I began by saying there is nothing I can offer that makes this moment acceptable or less horrifying. There is no teaching that explains it away. What we can do is see and feel the suffering clearly, without denial or false comfort.
We talked about the exposure of cruelty and hypocrisy, while also remembering that this country has held real goodness alongside real harm. I explored the three poisons that distort our response to crisis: grasping, delusion, and aggression. Although we must act and resist, aggression only breeds more aggression. Now what?
Drawing on Buddhist teachings about the realms of existence, I focused on the human realm as the place where we can wake up and respond with sanity. During times that I cannot defeat my enemies, I can still strengthen my friends. That shift restores strength and energy.
I closed by underscoring the importance of continuing to imagine a sane and compassionate world, no matter how far off it may feel. Without the ability to envision what is possible, we lose the ability to create it. 
We dream on behalf of others.
Highlights:
Why this moment calls for community rather than answers
The danger of responding from grasping, delusion, or aggression
Remembering both the harm and the goodness in our collective history
The human realm as a source of strength and responsibility
Strengthening friends when you cannot defeat enemies
Why imagining a better world is crucial
Mixing sanity into situations of profound cruelty

Music
For the after party, I share “Say It’s Not So” by Angela Strehli, my favorite female blues singer. The track features Derek O’Brien, who also composed the music for this podcast. This song is deeply personal to me, and it cuts straight to the heart every time.
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Fearless Creativity: A Meditation and Writing Retreat 
Join me at Drala Mountain Center in the Colorado Rockies for Fearless Creativity, a meditation and writing retreat offe
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In this episode, I introduce the Four Karmas—pacifying, enriching, magnetizing, and destroying—as practical actions for meeting chaos, conflict, and confusion without losing clarity or heart. In this Buddhist framework, karma means action, not fate. These are not strategies for getting your way, but ways to protect the mind, deepen compassion, and interrupt ignorance in real time.
I also explore the “ Māras ,” the obstacles that can distort each karma, and why wisdom sometimes needs to be gentle—and sometimes fierce. Drawing on the story of the Buddha under the Bodhi tree, I reflect on how distraction, shame, and aggression show up in our own lives, and how these four actions help us meet them skillfully.

Highlights
Karma as action, not reward or punishment
The Four Karmas as tools for clarity and compassion
How wisdom can be peaceful or wrathful
Knowing when to add, wait, attract, or let go

The Four Karmas (Briefly)
Pacifying: Settling down to see clearly, often through deep listening rather than fixing.
 Obstacle: Spiritual bypassing.
Enriching: Adding what genuinely increases vitality and connection, based on what’s actually needed.
 Obstacle: Accumulating without applying.
Magnetizing: Receptivity—allowing insight, creativity, and help to come toward you.
 Obstacle: Emotional reactivity that obscures perception.
Destroying: Ending or pruning what no longer serves, without aggression.
 Obstacle: Total shutdown instead of skillful cutting.

Closing Music
I end the episode with “Waloyo Yamoni (We Overcome the Wind)” by Christopher Tin—a piece that feels vast, direct, and deeply human.
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During this episode, I mentioned my upcoming retreat on meditation and writing, Fearless Creativity. You can learn more here.
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If this podcast has been meaningful to you, it would be great if you would subscribe, give it a five star rating and share it with a friend. To join or learn more about The Open Heart Project please visit openheartproject.com.
Thoughts? Email us at [email protected]
Produced by Citizens of Sound
Music by: Derek O'Brien

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