The Maisie Hill Experience

What if being nice isn't always the kindest thing you can do? Many of us have been taught to be pleasant, agreeable, and considerate of others, but constantly trying to be liked and avoiding uncomfortable conversations can come at a cost. In this episode, I'm exploring why being nice can actually be harmful and what makes kindness a more valuable alternative.
     
I look at the difference between being nice and being kind, and why the two aren't always the same thing. Listen in to discover how to recognise when you're prioritising being liked over being genuinely helpful, and what it takes to start choosing kindness instead.
                                                                                    
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Are you genuinely tired, or is your brain trying to convince you to avoid something? Knowing when to push forward and when to slow down isn't always straightforward, especially when you're used to being productive and getting things done. In this episode, I'm exploring why recognising your need for rest is so important and what can happen when you ignore it.
      
With the change of seasons leaving so many people feeling tired and less motivated than usual, I'm sharing how I distinguish between my body asking for rest and my brain wanting to avoid something uncomfortable. I also look at why doing less can feel so challenging, particularly when you've been conditioned to measure your worth by how much you do for others, and how self-criticism can get in the way of actually resting.
    
Listen in to discover how to recognise when you need to slow down and make decisions that support your physical and mental wellbeing. You'll learn how to assess your energy, reconsider your commitments, and give yourself the rest you need without turning it into another reason to criticise yourself.
                                                                                    
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What if the things you're ready to let go of are also the things that can help you grow? Autumn is a powerful reminder that growth isn't always about adding more or moving forward. Sometimes, it's about recognising what has served its purpose, making space for something new, and appreciating the beauty of what comes next.
      
In this episode, I'm reflecting on a childhood memory of planting conkers and watching them grow into trees to explore how our beliefs, experiences, and early influences shape who we become. I look at how some of those beliefs continue to support us while others hold us back, and why the natural cycles of growth, decay, and renewal offer such a useful perspective on our own lives.
     
Listen in to discover how to reflect on the beliefs and narratives you've carried with you, recognise what you're ready to release, and intentionally nurture new ways of thinking. You'll learn how to honour your own pace of growth and use the lessons of your past to influence what happens next.
                                                                                
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What shapes the way you connect with the people in your life? For the 300th episode of the podcast, I'm celebrating by sharing some of the teachings from my recent Relationship Skills Workshop and exploring the foundations that influence how we experience our relationships.
       
In this episode, I'm looking at the thoughts we have about other people, the values we bring to our interactions, and what helps us feel connected. I'll also show you why connection can look very different from person to person and how your stress responses can influence the way you show up with others.
     
Listen in to better understand the patterns playing out in your relationships and what helps you become more available for connection. You'll come away with greater awareness of what shapes your relationships and where you can start making intentional changes in how you relate to the people in your life.
                                                                            
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What does it actually mean to be good at relationships? You might think it means getting along with everyone, avoiding conflict, or being the person everyone can rely on. But sometimes those things come at the expense of speaking up, expressing what you need, and letting other people experience the real you.
        
In this episode, I'm exploring the ideas many of us have absorbed about what good relationships are supposed to look like, particularly when we've been socialised to be agreeable, accommodating, and responsible for keeping everyone else happy. Drawing on my own experiences and years of coaching, I'm sharing seven things I believe it means to be good at relationships and the skills that can help you put them into practice.
                                                                       
Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://maisiehill.com/299
                 
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Sign up for the Relationship Skills Workshop on the 3rd of October, 2026 at maisiehill.com/relationships.