Raising Boys & Girls

David and Sissy explore the unique role fathers play in helping daughters develop confidence, resilience, and capability. Through personal stories, research, and counseling insights, they discuss how dads build capability by spending time with their daughters, teaching practical skills, staying emotionally engaged, and continuing to pursue connection even during the challenging adolescent years. They also address common pitfalls, such as aligning with daughters against moms or withdrawing when daughters seem distant, and offer practical ways fathers can strengthen connection through shared experiences, curiosity, encouragement, and consistent presence. 

Resources mentioned:


Capable by David Thomas and Sissy Goff


The Middle Place by Kelly Corrigan

Books by Dan Allender

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In this Capable Connections conversation, Hunter Henry and his mom, Jenny Henry, reflect on the values and experiences that shaped Hunter from childhood to adulthood. They discuss the importance of faith, grace, character, perseverance, family dinners, and meaningful connection, as well as the challenges of giving kids increasing independence as they grow. Through stories about sports, family life, and parenting missteps, they highlight how strong relationships, encouragement, and trust help children develop confidence, resilience, and capability.

Resources mentioned:


International Justice Mission


Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build On for Life by David Thomas

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David and Sissy explore the powerful relationship between moms and sons, emphasizing that moms are often a boy’s emotional home base and play a key role in shaping his confidence, emotional health, and future relationships. They discuss how boys often express their biggest emotions where they feel safest and encourage moms to respond with warmth, steadiness, and clear boundaries. The conversation also highlights the importance of helping boys build responsibility, self-regulation, and respect while avoiding unhealthy patterns of over-accommodation.

Resources mentioned

Capable by David Thomas and Sissy Goff

Strong and Smart: A Boy's Guide to Building Healthy Emotions by David Thomas

The Art Of Family: Rituals, Imagination, and Everyday Spirituality by Gina Bria

Cleveland Clinic Study: Mom Burnout: Are You Dealing With Depleted Mother Syndrome?

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Sissy Goff and David Thomas sit down with father and son Randy and Scott Hearon for a deeply honest conversation about the father-son relationship. Through stories spanning childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, they explore the messages boys receive about identity, capability, performance, faith, and belonging. Randy reflects on his growth as a father, including the impact of addiction, sports culture, and grace, while Scott shares how his dad’s presence, vulnerability, encouragement, and willingness to grow alongside him shaped his life. Together they discuss the importance of helping boys know they have what it takes, the dangers of performance-based identity, and the power of authentic relationships, forgiveness, and faith in building lasting connections between parents and children.

Resources mentioned:


Promise Keepers


The Crossing Rite of Passage from Boyhood to Manhood: Young Men's Manual by Richard Rupp


Wild at Heart by John Eldredge


Season of Life: A Football Star, a Boy, a Journey to Manhood by Jeffrey Marx

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In episode 382, Sissy Goff and David Thomas continue their Capable Connections series by exploring the unique relationship between fathers and sons. They discuss how fatherhood shapes both men and children, while highlighting challenges boys face around performance, emotional expression, and isolation. Through research, personal stories, and practical advice, they encourage dads to help sons build healthy identities, strong relationships, and emotional resilience by modeling vulnerability, prioritizing connection, and reminding boys that their worth is not based on achievement. 

Resources mentioned:

“Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you.” - Robert Fulghum

American Academy of Pediatrics research on youth sports burnout


Capable by David Thomas and Sissy Goff

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