For The Girl

We are so excited about this one! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, we wanted to bring another episode of encouragement and insight to all our single ladies—and who better to hear from than two amazing single Christian men? We sat down with Jamey and Nikolai to talk all things dating, singleness, and what they're actually looking for in a godly woman. From bold dating stories to the struggles of Christian singleness, these guys brought the fun, the wisdom, and the honesty we LOVE.

Whether you're feeling discouraged in the dating scene, wondering how to shoot your shot, or just curious where the good guys are hanging out—this episode is for YOU. Get ready for laughs, vulnerability, and a whole lot of truth about how to pursue Jesus and love in today’s world.

In This Episode

01:50 – Most unpopular dating opinions
04:00 – Embarrassing stories & creative first dates
07:00 – What they’re actually looking for in a woman
10:30 – Living full lives while single
14:00 – Where they hope to meet someone
16:00 – The “why am I still single?” convo
18:00 – Can girls make the first move?
22:30 – What a great first date actually looks like
25:00 – Why these guys aren’t dating much right now
28:00 – The Christian girl + guy disconnect
30:40 – Things girls worry about that guys don’t
33:00 – Major turnoffs an icks
35:00 – Real struggles guys face in singleness
38:00 – Their “elevator pitch” to the single ladies

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In this special episode, we’re joined by two godly and hilarious single Christian men — Calvin and Charles — for a real and unfiltered conversation about all things dating, attraction, and pursuing relationships that honor Jesus. From long-distance love stories to thoughts on modesty, vulnerability, and what they're actually looking for in a wife, this episode is packed with honesty, humor, and lots of wisdom. We got to ask the questions so many girls are wondering, and these guys delivered! Whether you're single and curious, dating and discerning, or just love some godly banter, this one is for you!

In This Episode

00:00 – Welcome to "The Boys" Episode

01:00 – Meet Calvin: Southern Charm & Startup Life

03:30 – Meet Charles: Creative, Construction, & Looking for Love

05:30 – Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships

10:00 – Charles’ Story: Australia, Dating, & Accountability

14:30 – When a Bikini Pic Is a Dealbreaker

18:00 – What Christian Men Look for on Instagram

22:00 – Homemaking, Femininity, and What’s Actually Attractive

25:00 – Are Christian Guys Actually Asking Girls Out?

29:00 – How Calvin Discerns Who to Date

33:00 – Charles’ Bold Approach & Discernment in Pursuit

36:00 – The Problem with Being Unapproachable

45:00 – "If He Wanted To, He Would" — True or False?

48:00 – Final Thoughts & Advice for Christian Women

51:00 – Calvin & Charles' 30-Second Wife Pitches

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We’re back with a super fun, super yappy episode! The snow apocalypse totally threw off our plans, but that didn’t stop us from hopping on the mic to catch up on life (virtually, of course). In this episode, we’re bringing you all the big updates—life shifts, work transitions, possible moves, and yes...even a little pregnancy talk (maybe). From toddler chaos and solo workouts in overalls to new rhythms with childcare and diving back into ministry work, we’re sharing the highs, the lows, and the hilarious in-betweens. You’ll hear about Mac's new church home, Kenz' small group launch, and the very spontaneous business venture that’s bubbling behind the scenes. It's a casual, cozy convo where we let you in on the real-life stuff God’s doing in this season.

In This Episode
06:00 – Virtual Podcasting Woes
10:00 – Big Life Update #1: Tyler’s Job Shift
14:30 – Big Life Update #2: Kens & the Two-Kid Chaos
19:00 – Childcare & Working Rhythms
24:00 – Returning to Delight Ministries
26:00 – Possible Big Move?
28:00 – Surprise Business Venture
32:00 – Pregnancy Updates (or Lack Thereof!)
39:00 – New Church Community for Mac
48:00 – Kens Launches a Young Adults Small Group
56:00 – What Should We Study?
58:00 – Speaking Update from Mac
01:03:00 – The Glow-Up That Got Cancelled

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In this episode, we get real about the chaos of life and how we’re learning to slow it all down. From overpacked schedules and toddler chaos to marriage dynamics and that ever-distracting phone, we talk about what’s been stressing us out—and how we’re actually doing something about it. We share the rhythms, mindset shifts, and spiritual habits that are helping us create more peace, presence, and purpose in our days. Plus, we get honest about what our husbands claim they’re “good at” and why ping-pong might be their peak. If your life’s felt a little too frantic lately, this is your gentle reminder that it doesn’t have to be that way. Let’s destress our lives together—starting now.

In This Episode
00:00 – Welcome & Hilarious Husband Banter
06:30 – Showing Up Unfiltered: A No-Makeup Kind of Day
07:00 – Overcommitment & Why Slower is Better
09:00 – Leave White Space in Your Calendar
10:00 – Saying Yes to Less & Finding Your Buckets
14:30 – Take Back Control: Managing Your Finances
18:30 – Kill the Haunting To-Do List
20:00 – The Phone Trap: Finding Freedom with The Brick
22:00 – Presence Over Pressure: A Challenge for Moms
25:00 – Jesus is the Ultimate De-Stressor

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Monarch Money: budgeting app

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In this episode, we're getting real about how to stay spiritually grounded in 2026. We’re talking caffeine withdrawals, gummy detoxes, and the ever-humbling reality of mom life—while also diving into four intentional ways we can pursue deeper consistency in our walk with Jesus. Through laughter, personal stories, and a whole lot of grace, we unpack how community, rhythms, spiritual focus, and clearing life’s clutter can powerfully impact our year. Whether you're starting fresh or just need a reset, this one's for you!

In This Episode

00:00 – Zoom Podcasting & Energy Drinks
03:00 – Vanilla Beans, Easy Recipes & Mom Life Dinners
09:00 – Why This Episode Matters: Real Faith in Real Life
10:20 – C1: Community Is Everything
16:20 – C2: Create Rhythms (That Actually Fit Your Life)
30:32 – C3: Consider Him in the Everyday Moments
36:11 – C4: Cut the Clutter & Make Space for God
43:00 – Final Thoughts & What’s Ahead for the Podcast

Resources Mentioned


Song: "Consider Him" by Abby Gamboa


Bible Study: The Wild Invitation + upcoming Group Guide

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