Real Human Design Stories

🎙 Real Human Design Stories – Episode 88

Welcome to Episode 88 of Real Human Design Stories.
I’m thrilled to welcome back Brandy Jordan, a 6/2 Splenic Manifestor, Left Angle Cross of Incarnation.

Brandy is a guide, teacher, and field-builder working at the intersection of Human Design, somatic awareness, and relational psychology. Her work centers on integration over insight and embodiment over peak experience.

This is not a Human Design origin story. It’s an evolution story.

In this conversation, we explore the spiral of becoming — how we revisit the same themes (relationships, identity, freedom, fear) at deeper levels each time. We talk about nervous system regulation, the tension between victimhood and freedom, autoimmune patterns as biological signaling (Brandy shares from her lived experience with lupus), and how relationships evolve through seasons — including conscious uncoupling and consensual support.

This episode is a reminder that life doesn’t move in straight lines. It spirals.

• The spiral of growth: from insecurity to security
• Victimhood vs freedom and the power of perception
• Regulation through emotion (not bypassing it)
• Autoimmune patterns and alignment
• Ecosystems vs funnels: finding your fractal
• Relationships, consent, and conscious uncoupling

Brandy’s first appearance (Episode 71 – Honoring the Body, the Heart, and the Experiment):
https://youtu.be/wrjCDtD52GA?si=G_jnGmX8jmq632sA

Connect with Brandy:
https://www.emergebydesign.net/Brandy

A Human Design Experience – Miami Edition:
https://www.ahumandesignexperience.com/

High Desert Human Design Conference:
https://www.facebook.com/Highdeserthumandesign/
Email: [email protected]

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In Episode 87 of Real Human Design Stories, I’m sitting down with Alex Negrete, a 2/4 Self-Projected Projectorwith the RAX of the Sphinx, to talk about direction, identity, and what happens when the life that looks like “success” stops fitting.

Alex shares how a major health wake-up call at 21 became the beginning of a completely different path, and how Human Design later gave him permission to stop forcing a life that wasn’t his. We explore what it means to be Self-Projected (where clarity and direction are revealed through the voice), how the Cross of the Sphinx shows up as real-life course-corrections toward soul-aligned direction, and why faith is often the bridge when you don’t have the whole map yet.

We also go into Alex’s work with hypnotherapy and past-life exploration, including why receiving can feel hard when you don’t feel safe, how openness in the chart can turn into carrying what isn’t yours, and what changes when you build energetic hygiene and trust your system.

Timestamps
00:00 – When “success” stops fitting
03:08 – Early visibility and the wake-up call that changed everything
05:32 – How Human Design came back around (timing + deconditioning)
08:44 – Self-Projected direction: truth through the voice
12:17 – Hypnotherapy + past lives: subconscious healing and soul-level clarity
15:58 – Human Design mechanics: magnetic monopole, “driver,” and the soul question
20:52 – Hypnosis myths, safety, and trust
25:50 – Why it can feel like “it doesn’t work for me”
29:27 – Openness, sensitivity, and energetic boundaries
34:24 – Energetic hygiene: not carrying what isn’t yours
44:45 – Gate 55: faith as the antidote to fear
52:24 – What’s next for Alex: teaching, groups, and expanded offerings
54:14 – Wrap-up

To work with or connect with Alex: https://alexnegrete.com
To work with or connect with Kathy: https://kathybochonko.com

Episode 86 · Collective Souls at a Turning Point
with astrologer, Human Design analyst, and author Daljeet Peterson

Imagine first bumping into Human Design in the middle of a dust storm at Burning Man… and then setting it aside for a decade until life brings it back around at exactly the right moment. In this episode, Daljeet shares how 25+ years of astrology, a spiritual name with a big message behind it, and a love of story all came together in his work as a practical mystic and cosmic storyteller.

We unpack how astrology, Human Design, and the Gene Keys can talk to each other, why your chart can feel “unfinished” until you see it through another lens, and how understanding generational cycles can turn frustration with “other generations” into compassion, context, and real conversation. We also talk about Daljeet’s new book, Collective Souls: Generations, Astrology, and the Future of America, and what it means to be born for these times.

How Daljeet first met Human Design at Burning Man and came back to it ten years later

What happens when astrology, Human Design, and the Gene Keys start mirroring each other

Seeing “weird” parts of your astrology chart differently through the bodygraph

Polarities, Incarnation Crosses, and why the Sun/Earth axis is such a powerful spine in your design

How to relate to your chart as a living relationship that deepens over time

Using big planetary cycles (Saturn return, Chiron, Pluto) to frame your life stories

Living as a 3/5 “martyr–heretic” and why trial-and-error is not a mistake, it is the path

Godheads, chemistry, and working with rich archetypal story in Human Design

Generational astrology, the U.S. Pluto return, and why this moment feels so intense

Turning generational judgment into intergenerational conversation and shared purpose

The meaning behind Daljeet’s spiritual name and what it asked him to grow into

00:00 – Introduction to Human Design and astrology
01:32 – Meet Daljeet: astrologer, Human Design analyst, and author
05:04 – Daljeet’s journey from astrology into Human Design
09:09 – Integrating astrology, Human Design, and the Gene Keys
18:53 – The power of polarities and Incarnation Crosses
21:54 – Deepening the relationship with your chart over time
34:27 – Navigating life’s major cycles (Saturn, Chiron, Pluto)
36:07 – Understanding the 3/5 “martyr–heretic” profile
40:33 – Exploring the concept of Godheads
46:33 – Generational astrology and crisis cycles
49:46 – Why intergenerational conversations matter
55:07 – Introducing Collective Souls
58:29 – Daljeet’s spiritual journey and name story
01:00:31 – Closing thoughts and where to go next

Substack (writing, videos, and offers): mutablefire21.substack.com

Book: Collective Souls: Generations, Astrology, and the Future of America

Purchase on Amazon: https://a.co/d/7TkEEYm

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In Episode 85, I sit down with a guest after my own Projector heart. We get practical about two things that keep your energy clean and your voice clear: soundboarding and play. We also dig into environmental authority in real life and how that leads to decisions you can stand behind.

Laura Michelle Wolff is a 3/5 Mental Projector (Right Angle Cross of the Four Ways), ghostwriter, full-service book publisher (Wolff & DeVos Publishing), Human Design Specialist, and professional psychic-medium. With FBI-honed interviewing skills, a background in therapy/forensics and marketing/SEO, she helps you publish a non-fiction book that actually sounds like you.

00:00 – Teaser & setup
01:25 – Laura’s Human Design origin story (3/5 Mental Projector)
03:21 – Business struggle → HD breakthrough
06:54 – Why play powers Projectors (and everyone’s clarity)
15:44 – Environmental authority & soundboarding without being steered
25:18 – Marketing/SEO, working with Karen, and podcasting
32:01 – From “invisible” to seen: nervous system + attention
33:07 – Embodiment as the point of Human Design
38:44 – Psychic-medium journey & boundaries that work
49:43 – Founding a publishing company (writing vs. publishing)
57:32 – What the throat wants to say: authentic voice
01:02:12 – How to connect and work with Laura
01:04:18 – Close & outro

“Play is the switch that turns our magnetism back on.”

“I can hear myself lying.” (on soundboarding and hearing truth in the right space)

“We speak our world into existence.”

📘 Pre-order Laura’s book, Designed to Captivate: https://a.co/d/dTjIhTR

💫 Readings with Laura: https://planethumandesign.com

📞 15-minute chat: https://talktolauramichelle.com

🖋️ Publishing (Wolff & DeVos): https://wolffanddevosspublishing.com

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Human Design, Mental Projector, environmental authority, soundboarding, Projector strategy, play and magnetism, throat center, authentic voice, ghostwriting, publishing, Right Angle Cross of the Four Ways, Radical Self-Trust.

If you’ve been feeling unseen, stuck, or speaking with someone else’s voice in your throat, this conversation is your permission slip: go play, soundboard in the right space, and hear your own voice.
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🎙 Episode 84 – Coming into Alignment: Chiropractor Dr. Kate Flynn, 3/5 Emotional Generator

In this episode of Real Human Design Stories, I talk with Dr. Kate Flynn, a 3/5 Emotional Generator and chiropractor who bridges science and energetics through her work and her Human Design experiment.

Kate and her 3/5 Splenic Projector husband took the third-line leap of a lifetime—selling everything, moving to Ecuador, and learning firsthand what it means to let the body lead. We explore the power of embodiment, the messages the body sends through the feet, and how restoring communication between mind and movement can shift everything.

Kate shares how her Body First program helps people reconnect with their instincts and find true alignment through simple, daily movement. This conversation is for anyone who’s ready to ground their experiment in the body and live from the wisdom that’s already within.

✨ Learn more about Dr. Kate Flynn: https://howtohuman.guide
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