The Exploring Introvert with Mariella Franker, PhD
Mariella Franker, PhD
Hi there Exploring Introvert! You’re in the right place if you’re a curious introvert who wants to use your strengths to make meaningful contributions to others...
082 | Saying goodbye to Productive Introvert Community | Season 4
I’ve been a bit absent from the podcast but a lot has been happening behind the scenes. A short chapter today to update you on what’s been going on and what’s coming for the podcast. We’re talking about one word that ties this community of introverts together and the NEW NAME OF THE PODCAST!
We’re also taking on a new format for the podcast: fewer but more regular updates once a month. New monthly updates will be released now every first Thursday of the month. We’ll look back at the past month and what I’m currently researching, experimenting with, and what I’ve learned.
If you want a little bit more or prefer written summaries, sign up for my newsletter 🧭 THE EXPLORING INTROVERT for my best eye-opening and empowering lessons for introverts in your inbox twice a month:
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I’m excited - and a little bit nervous - about these changes. I’m working hard to improve the podcast and I’ll do my very best to make it worth while your attention.
Thank you for hanging out with me today, have a great Christmas, and I’ll see you again on January 2nd 👋
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00:00 Update and what’s been happening behind the scenes
00:28 The Exploring Introvert (new podcast name!!)
01:26 Tying it together
02:19 What’s going to happen?
03:37 New chapters once a month
04:49 Sign up for The Exploring Introvert newsletter
05:40 See you again on Jan 2nd!
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081 | Taking 2 months off work: my version of a think week | Season 4
Taking longer periods of time off from work has been a long standing dream of mine. I never thought it would be possible for me and I was always happy to get the rare 2 weeks off per year. Usually, I barely felt refreshed after 2 weeks off and the cycle would start again.
When I started my coaching business, I realized that I had the opportunity to make this dream a reality. I decided that if I really wanted to take a couple of months off per year, that I would start practicing.
I’ve taken 2 months off work during the summer holidays for the third year now, reducing my workload to 1-2 hours a day and spending the rest of the time with my family and traveling.
You could say that, at the moment, this is my version of Bill Gates’ famous think week: a week with no distractions that Bill Gates spends in a cabin in the woods to think about his professional and personal decisions.
In today’s chapter, I’m sharing with you why a “think week” is an invaluable way to check your compass and to step away from the busy-ness of every day life so that you can do re-focus on the things that are meaningful to you.
My “think week” didn’t exactly go to plan and initially I was frustrated. But, even when things don’t go according to plan, they can still be valuable. I’ll tell you about how I was able to change my mindset around my failed plan and the valuable lessons I learned from this years think week.
00:00 Here we are again! (Off to a nervous start)
00:21 When you prefer to be behind the scenes but you host a video podcast
01:11 taking 2 months off work every year had been a dream of mine
02:25 My version of Bill Gates' famous think week
03:17 Reducing my workload to 1-2 hours a day
04:18 When you get caught up in the busy-ness of everyday work
06:02 Things that don't go according to plan can still be valuable
08:51 From frustrated to focused
10:41 When excitement meets fear
11:58 Life is more than just your work
Go here:
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080 | Last season's most popular: Low energy and the introvert hangover | Season 4
After a 2 months break, we are kicking off season 4!
This podcast chapter takes a look back. I'm sharing clips from the two most popular chapters from last season.
These chapters are all about energy and energy management for introverts.
From a personal perspective, struggles with an energy rollercoaster for a long time led me to believe that I was just "sickly" and "couldn't handle" as much as other people could.
I kept telling myself (and others) that I was a low energy person and it became a barrier for me to go out and to do things I wanted to do.
I tell you more about low energy in the first clip.
Introvert hangover was one of the reasons for my energy rollercoaster, although I didn't know that at the time.
Introvert hangover (or getting peopled out, overstimulation, social drain) is when introverts become extremely tired or even ill after a really busy time or from too much social interaction.
I tell you more about some of the science behind the introvert hangover in the second clip.
If you found this podcast helpful, please share it with a friend!
Go here for:
The full podcast chapters
➡️ Are you a low energy person?
➡️ Everything you need to know about introvert hangover
Other resources mentioned in this podcast chapter
➡️ 12 signs you have an introvert hangover on Introvert, Dear
➡️ Is dopamine really "the happy hormone"?
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079 | Life update: adapting to changes, creating a business that's sustainable and taking 2 months off | Season 3
This podcast episode is a bit different from the usual chapters. I’m doing a life update today. I’m going to share with you what’s been going on in my business, offers that I’m working on, and what’s coming up for the podcast.This is the final chapter of Season 3 as I'm taking a 2-month break over the Summer. I'll be back mid September with the first chapter of Season 4!Thank you all so much for sticking around through these many changes. I know I have a long way to go to make this podcast something really interesting. I hope that you'll stick around for what's coming next.
00:00 A special life update episode
00:53 Why did I slow down the podcast?
01:52 Creating a business that's sustainable
03:14 Managing my own inner critic around not being consistent
03:49 Accommodating life as a parent
04:34 What's up next for the podcast?
05:29 About Google podcast
06:00 Taking 2 months off work
07:23 Methods I’m using to develop a new offer
08:48 Next round of win-win feedback calls
09:30 About the mailing list: habit research, stories and tips, especially for introverts who work from home
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078 | Struggling with a chaotic daily routine? | Season 3
Today, we’re talking about another common habit bottleneck: the chaotic routine.
This is a familiar one. Probably everyone can recognize the feeling of having a really chaotic day. Your day is running away from you and you feel like you you’re a side character in a dramatic play that you didn’t audition for.
Usually, at the end of the day, you’re exhausted and even though you may have done a lot of things and you were running from one place to the next, you don’t feel like you accomplished anything.
But I want to encourage you because establishing a routine that works for you can be done and it’s less complicated than you think.
In this chapter, we’re doing to talk about why chaotic routine is a common habit bottleneck and what makes this hard for introverts in particular. We’re going to talk about 4 reasons why being disciplined to stick to the same routine every day isn’t the best strategy for everyone and we’re going to look at a few examples to help you create a routine that works well for you.
I identified ‘chaotic routine’ as one of the common habit bottlenecks because I get a lot of questions related to this. A LOT of people struggle with feeling chaotic throughout their day.
People will ask me things like:
I want to learn a new language or I want to pick up an old (or new) hobby but how do I possibly fit that into an already packed schedule?
or My life is so chaotic right now that I feel like I don’t have any time for myself
or From the moment I wake up to the moment I go to sleep, I’m just running. I hardly have time to catch my breath.
My clients work from full time or part time home and in the office and for them, feeling chaotic with their day is very common because they’re handling work, family, house chores, birthday parties and what not all within the same time windows.
It can be hard to come up with a routine that works for you and for allows you to do your work well and be there for your loved ones.
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Related chapters: 044 | Introduction to habit styles: https://link.chtbl.com/whats-your-habit-style
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Hi there Exploring Introvert! You’re in the right place if you’re a curious introvert who wants to use your strengths to make meaningful contributions to others and take better care of yourself.
Every first Thursday of the month, I share a monthly update with my most eye-opening lessons that month. You’ll learn from my experience as a certified habit coach, business owner, parent, and fellow introvert about important topics for introverts.
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