Finding Spirit With Tabs

What does it really mean to surrender on your spiritual journey? In this episode, I’m exploring a lesson that has been coming up again and again in my sessions: letting go of the need to control how everything unfolds. We’ll talk about the difference between surrender and simply giving up, my beliefs around future timelines and divine paths, following intuitive nudges without needing to know where they’ll lead, and why surrender can completely change your mediumship development. I’ll also share what surrender has looked like in my own life through grief, change, uncertainty, and learning to hold space for both the light and the dark. Because surrender doesn’t mean you stop making choices. It means you make the choice, take the next step, and loosen your grip on what has to happen next.

Ep 86: Is Life Based On Destony Or Free Will

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It’s officially been three years since I stepped into this work as a psychic medium, and life looks very different than it did when I started.
In this episode, I’m sitting down for a bit of a life update and reflecting on what these last three years have actually looked like. The growth, the changes, the things I’ve learned about mediumship, and some of the things happening in my life right now.
When I first started developing my mediumship, I had no idea where it would take me. I couldn’t have predicted the readings, the podcast, the people I would meet, the experiences I would have, or how much I would change personally along the way.
And like any spiritual journey, it hasn’t been a straight line.
I’m sharing where I’m at now, what’s been shifting behind the scenes, what mediumship looks like for me three years later, and some of the things I’m looking forward to as I move into this next chapter.
This one is a little more personal. No list of signs. No rabbit hole to solve. Just a conversation about life, mediumship, growth, change, and what happens when you look back and realize just how much can happen in three years.
Whether you’re developing your own psychic or mediumship abilities, going through a spiritual awakening, or simply navigating a season where life seems to be changing quickly, I hope something in this conversation resonates with you.
Finding Spirit with Tabs is a podcast about mediumship, intuition, spiritual awakening, the unexplained, and all the weird and wonderful things we experience along the way. 💚

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Why are so many intuitive people afraid of the dark?
In this episode, I’m exploring why fear of the dark can sometimes show up alongside strong intuition, sensitivity, and psychic awareness.
We’ll talk about what you may have experienced as a child, why nighttime can make intuitive experiences feel louder, and how fear can develop when you’re sensing things you don’t yet understand.
If you’ve always been uncomfortable in the dark, felt like you weren’t alone, noticed shadows or movement, or simply felt more aware at night, this episode might help you connect a few dots.
Maybe you weren’t just afraid of the dark. Maybe you were noticing more than you realized. 👀✨

Ep 91: The Truth About Spiritual Rituals (Most People Miss This)
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Have you noticed how many people seem to be reaching a point of surrender lately?
I’ve been hearing this theme repeatedly in my sessions: people realizing they can’t control every outcome, predict what comes next, or keep forcing something that no longer feels aligned.
In this mini episode, I’m exploring what surrender actually means on a spiritual journey, why it doesn’t mean giving up, and some of the current astrology that may be reflecting these themes of release, change, and letting go.
We’ll also talk about timelines, free will, divine path, and what it can look like to trust the next step without needing to know exactly where it leads.
If you’ve been feeling called to let go, stop forcing, or trust what comes next, this one might resonate.

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Did you have psychic or intuitive experiences as a child… and then one day they seemed to disappear?
Maybe you were terrified of the dark, had vivid dreams or nightmares, saw or sensed things you couldn’t explain, had an “imaginary friend,” or simply knew things before you should have known them. And somewhere along the way, you learned to shut it down.
In this episode, we’re talking about the ways we may intentionally or unintentionally suppress our intuitive abilities as children. Fear, being told it was “just your imagination,” religious beliefs, overwhelming experiences, or simply realizing that other people weren’t experiencing the world the same way you were can all change how much we allow ourselves to notice.
We’ll also talk about what it can look like when those abilities begin resurfacing later in life and how to reconnect without trying to force everything back open at once.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Was I more psychic as a child?” this episode might connect a few dots.
And if you recognize yourself in these stories, you’re definitely not the only one. ✨

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New episodes exploring mediumship, intuition, spiritual awakening, consciousness and what happens when we start paying attention to the things we can’t always explain.
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