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When he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives?

A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle?

Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comedian Jackie Kashian. She and Dan tackle a question from a man who wants to hit on a woman 30 years his junior at the Passover seder. They talk about age gap relationships in general, on sleeping with many people whilst blotto drunk, and they dish out some actionable advice on how to succeed as a stand-up comedian. A little is on the Micro, and the whole thing is on the Magnum.

And, a very female presenting non-binary person has the hots for gay bears. Are any of them bisexual enough to want to date this person?

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From faking orgasms (which you mustn't do) to freysexuality, erectile dysfunction to ethical non-monogamy and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, in these dark times.

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A trans woman enjoys chastity play. But most cock cages use the testicles to keep the device in place. She had an orchiectomy for her gender affirming care, so what is she to do?

A gay man has a pattern of losing attraction to the people he's seeing. The instant they break up he gets hot for them again. And now, it's happening with his husband.

On the Magnum Dan chats with super bad-ass journalist, lawyer and author Jill Filipovic about the horrifying "Rape Academy" and how feminism is on the ropes right now. She is also our guest on Sex Politics this week. Join us for a deep dive into what women are up against.

She and her husband went to an orgy with friends for her husband's birthday. But you know what nobody gave him? An orgasm. I mean, it's an ORGY and his BIRTHDAY. Put it together people!

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Meet Spring and Nix or "Sprix" as they are called together. These foxy sex party veterans embarked on an adventure at a religious themed event that became a team sport.

Somewhere in Mormon heaven, Joseph Smith and Brigham Young are high-fiving each other.

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A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress?

A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Jennie Young, author of Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter. Her feminist, pragmatic approach to dating for straight women is blunt and hilarious. She talks about her method for brutally winnowing down the list of men, how dating apps are addictive by design, and (counterintuitively,) why the man should plan the first date. Don't miss this one!

And, a man asks for logistical advice on how to plan the abduction scene his wife desires. What could possibly go wrong?

Maybe she'll call and tell us how it went!

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.