Simply Convivial: Biblical Homemaking, Homeschooling & Mom Life—Without Burnout

Declutter with me! Decluttering does not need to be a weekend project or a life overhaul. Register for the Free Workshop: Decluttering Made Simple: 3 Surprising Ways to Get Organized WITHOUT Tossing Everything - simplyconvivial.com/declutterIn this episode of my decluttering series, I show you how to make decluttering a small, repeatable habit using just 10 minutes at a time. Instead of waiting until you are fed up, exhausted, or drowning in mess, you can learn how to stay on top of clutter as a normal part of managing a home.I walk through decluttering a real drawer in real time and explain:    Why big decluttering projects usually backfire    How to choose the right small space to start    Why trash comes first    How to build momentum without making a huge mess    How to turn decluttering into regular maintenance instead of a crisis response

Minimalism promises peace. Calm. Control. A home that finally feels manageable. But for busy families, minimalism often becomes just another guilt trap. In this first episode of my decluttering series, I explain why minimalism is not the answer to clutter, why homes exist to serve people (not aesthetics), and what homemakers actually need instead.Register for the Free Workshop: Decluttering Made Simple: 3 Surprising Ways to Get Organized WITHOUT Tossing Everything - simplyconvivial.com/declutterWe talk about:    Why minimalism and over-shopping are two sides of the same problem    Why clutter is not a moral failure    What it really means to manage a home well    Why hospitality requires equipment and use    How to think about stuff as a tool, not an enemyDecluttering matters. But it only works when it flows from ownership, competence, and purpose — not shame or image-management. I also share details about my upcoming workshop and what’s coming next in this series, including real-life decluttering in my own home.This is episode 1 of a 5-part series on decluttering.Christian homemaking takes deliberate practice, not perfect systems. Every week on Simply Convivial, I share practical mindset shifts and small, steady habits that help you build a home anchored in truth and run with cheerful consistency. If you want less overwhelm, stronger routines, and a more faithful way to manage your day, you’re in the right place. Grab a basket of laundry, press play, and let’s grow in cheerful productivity together.📌 Start here (free):Smile & Start Challenge — Build a simple, cheerful reset habit that cuts overwhelm at the roothttps://simplyconvivial.com/smile💜 My membership & courses:     Convivial Circle — Coaching, community, and live support for Christian homemakershttps://simplyconvivial.com/circle     Simply Convivial Library App — Courses, replays, and audio in one placehttps://simplyconvivial.com/library     Homemaking 101 — The foundational course for new membershttps://simplyconvivial.com/homemaking101📚 My books:     Simplified Organization — Mindset + systems for cheerful productivityhttps://amzn.to/48LOn9z     The Convivial Homeschool — Encouragement and clarity for classical homeschool momshttps://amzn.to/4j0GmRu🎧 Listen to the Simply Convivial Podcast:https://simplyconvivial.com/podcast

“Slow living” is often presented as the cure for stress and overwhelm, especially for moms. But what if slowing down isn’t the answer at all? Free Smile & Start Attitude Challenge: https://simplyconvivial.com/smileThe speed of life isn’t the point. Working in the place God has put us and living in His grace and kindness that makes the impossible doable without stress, fast or slow, is the point.In this episode, I explain why slow living is a false ideal and how chasing a peaceful aesthetic can actually increase anxiety and burnout. Peace doesn’t come from fewer responsibilities, fewer people, or a quieter-looking life. It comes from aligning our expectations with God’s calling and trusting His grace to equip us for the work He’s given us.Read the article version here: https://www.simplyconvivial.com/blog/slow-living-is-a-false-ideal/Minimizing your life doesn’t automatically remove stress, social media aesthetics distort our standards, and Scripture calls us to zeal in good works, not retreat from them. God may call you to seasons that feel full, demanding, and intense. You can be cheerful and content in busy seasons, too.The speed of your life isn’t the point. Faithfulness is.Christian homemaking takes deliberate practice, not perfect systems. Every week on Simply Convivial, I share practical mindset shifts and small, steady habits that help you build a home anchored in truth and run with cheerful consistency. If you want less overwhelm, stronger routines, and a more faithful way to manage your day, you’re in the right place. Grab a basket of laundry, press play, and let’s grow in cheerful productivity together.📌 Start here (free):Smile & Start Challenge — Build a simple, cheerful reset habit that cuts overwhelm at the roothttps://simplyconvivial.com/smile💜 My membership & courses:     Convivial Circle — Coaching, community, and live support for Christian homemakershttps://simplyconvivial.com/circle     Simply Convivial Library App — Courses, replays, and audio in one placehttps://simplyconvivial.com/library     Homemaking 101 — The foundational course for new membershttps://simplyconvivial.com/homemaking101📚 My books:     Simplified Organization — Mindset + systems for cheerful productivityhttps://amzn.to/48LOn9z     The Convivial Homeschool — Encouragement and clarity for classical homeschool momshttps://amzn.to/4j0GmRu🎧 Listen to the Simply Convivial Podcast:https://simplyconvivial.com/podcast

Most overwhelmed moms keep looking for the perfect planner, the right app, or a better routine. But deep down, you already know that no external system is going to fix overwhelm.The problem isn’t your tools. The problem is in your thinking.In this final episode of the series Why Perfectionism Makes Homemaking Feel Overwhelming, we get straight to the real solution: support, community, and mindset change. Perfectionism grows in isolation. It loosens its grip when you stop trying to manage everything alone.In this video, you’ll learn• why perfectionism thrives when you’re isolated with your thoughts• how community resets unrealistic expectations• why sharing small wins matters more than waiting for big results• how accountability builds follow-through without pressure• three practical ways to practice repent, rejoice, repeatHomemaking is real work. It takes attention, effort, and wisdom. It’s not something to be embarrassed about or hidden. It’s worth talking about, sharing strategies for, and growing in together.That’s why I created Convivial Circle—a community for women who want to practice cheerful, faithful stewardship at home without chasing perfection or pretending the work is effortless.Inside Convivial Circle, we• confront perfectionism together• practice baby-step progress• build routines that fit real families• develop accountability through small standup groups• grow in skill, confidence, and joyful responsibilityIf you’re tired of trying to fix overwhelm on your own, this is your invitation to stop isolating and start building momentum with support.👉 Learn more about Convivial Circle: https://convivialcircle.comI’d love to hear in the comments how you stay connected with other women and where you talk shop about homemaking. Let’s make this kind of conversation normal again.Repent. Rejoice. Repeat.

If systems alone could fix overwhelm, you wouldn’t still feel overwhelmed.By the time most homemakers find this video, they’ve already tried planners, routines, schedules, and organizing systems. The problem isn’t that those systems failed. The problem is that systems were never meant to be the starting point.In this episode, I explain the mindset shift that actually dissolves overwhelm: moving from perfectionism and control to stewardship and faithfulness.You’ll learn• why perfectionism looks productive but leads to procrastination and burnout• the difference between control and stewardship in homemaking• why faithful action today matters more than ideal conditions tomorrow• how iteration replaces guilt with growth• why small, incremental steps expand your capacity over timeOverwhelm grows when you measure yourself against an imagined future version of your life. Peace grows when you steward what’s right in front of you with humility, faithfulness, and patience.This video introduces iteration—the practice of making small changes, evaluating what’s working, and building forward over time. It’s the opposite of chasing perfect plans, and it’s how real progress is made in real homes.If you want help practicing this mindset, my free Smile & Start Challenge will give you daily encouragement and simple, incremental steps by email.👉 Get the Smile & Start Challenge: https://simplyconvivial.com/smileOr comment SMILE below and tell me what circumstances you’re currently stewarding. I’d love to help you identify a faithful next step.▶️ Next video in this seriesIn part four, I’ll share one more key ingredient that makes progress stick—and three practical ways to build it into your daily life. Click over to watch the final episode.