The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni

Why is it so hard for you to ask for help with the things that frustrate you?

In episode 113 of the Working Genius Podcast, Patrick Lencioni and Cody Thompson unpack why asking for help is one of the most practical and freeing applications of Working Genius. They explain how people often assume the work they hate must be miserable for everyone else, when in reality it may be exactly the kind of work that gives someone else joy and energy. Through examples from work, friendship, neighborhoods, and marriage, they show how naming your frustrations can reduce shame, build trust, and deepen connection.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00) Why Asking For Help Matters
Pat introduces the idea that people should not double down on work that drains them.
Cody and Pat explain why “Ask For Help” may be simple, but it is a deeply important topic.

(03:52) One Person’s Frustration Is Another Person’s Party
Cody explains how people often assume that work that drains them must drain everyone else.
Pat shares how asking someone for help can affirm their gifts rather than burden them.

(07:12) Connection, Vulnerability, And Working Genius
Pat connects Working Genius to the idea that people are meant to fill in each other’s gaps.
Cody and Pat discuss how refusing to ask for help can keep others from feeling useful and valued.

(11:49) Asking For Help In Marriage
Pat explains how Working Genius can help spouses understand each other instead of misreading each other.
Cody shares how his wife’s tenacity helped relieve stress around family finances.

(15:28) Shame, Weakness, And Practical Next Steps
Pat and Cody name the main reasons people resist asking for help: fear of burdening others, vulnerability, and shame.
Pat encourages people to look at their Working Genius gaps with their spouse or community and ask for support where they need it most.

This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: https://www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable.

Register for “Why Your Spouse Acts That Way” here: workinggenius.com/marriage

The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. The Six Types of Working Genius assessment is the fastest and simplest way to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about

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Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4iGGm8u
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Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/4hJKKSL), Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/6NWAZzkzl4ljxX7S2xkHvu), and YouTube (https://bit.ly/At-The-Table-YouTube).
Let us know your feedback via [email protected].

This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.

Why is it so hard for you to ask for help with the things that frustrate you?

In episode 113 of the Working Genius Podcast, Patrick Lencioni and Cody Thompson unpack why asking for help is one of the most practical and freeing applications of Working Genius. They explain how people often assume the work they hate must be miserable for everyone else, when in reality it may be exactly the kind of work that gives someone else joy and energy. Through examples from work, friendship, neighborhoods, and marriage, they show how naming your frustrations can reduce shame, build trust, and deepen connection.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00) Why Asking For Help Matters
Pat introduces the idea that people should not double down on work that drains them.
Cody and Pat explain why “Ask For Help” may be simple, but it is a deeply important topic.

(03:52) One Person’s Frustration Is Another Person’s Party
Cody explains how people often assume that work that drains them must drain everyone else.
Pat shares how asking someone for help can affirm their gifts rather than burden them.

(07:12) Connection, Vulnerability, And Working Genius
Pat connects Working Genius to the idea that people are meant to fill in each other’s gaps.
Cody and Pat discuss how refusing to ask for help can keep others from feeling useful and valued.

(11:49) Asking For Help In Marriage
Pat explains how Working Genius can help spouses understand each other instead of misreading each other.
Cody shares how his wife’s tenacity helped relieve stress around family finances.

(15:28) Shame, Weakness, And Practical Next Steps
Pat and Cody name the main reasons people resist asking for help: fear of burdening others, vulnerability, and shame.
Pat encourages people to look at their Working Genius gaps with their spouse or community and ask for support where they need it most.

This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: https://www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable.

Register for “Why Your Spouse Acts That Way” here: workinggenius.com/marriage

The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. The Six Types of Working Genius assessment is the fastest and simplest way to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about

Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficial

Stay Connected with Patrick Lencioni
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-lencioni-orghealth
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The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni
Apple: https://apple.co/4iNz6Yn
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4iGGm8u
YouTube: https://bit.ly/Working-Genius-YouTube

Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/4hJKKSL), Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/6NWAZzkzl4ljxX7S2xkHvu), and YouTube (https://bit.ly/At-The-Table-YouTube).

Let us know your feedback via [email protected].

This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.

Why do traditional “fun at work” solutions often fall short?

In episode 112 of the Working Genius Podcast, Patrick Lencioni, Cody Thompson, and Matthew Lencioni discuss the idea of fun at work, arguing that real enjoyment comes from operating within your Working Genius rather than relying on perks or surface-level incentives. Pat and Cody explore how different people experience the same activity in different ways based on their strengths, and how this applies across work, hobbies, and even vacations. Leaders who align roles with natural energy unlock not only better performance but a more joyful and engaged team.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00) Why fun at work matters
Fun at work is often misunderstood as perks rather than meaningful engagement.
Working in your genius makes time feel faster and work more enjoyable.

(03:02) How Working Genius shapes enjoyment
Teams naturally enjoy work more when roles align with strengths.
Misalignment leads to frustration and removes the sense of fun.

(06:16) The problem with surface-level fun
Companies often try to add fun outside of work instead of within it.
True engagement comes from making the work itself energizing.

(10:25) Why activities feel fun to some but not others
The same activity can feel energizing or painful depending on the person.
Working Genius explains why people experience identical tasks differently.

(15:48) Designing teams around energy and strengths
Teams perform better when work is divided based on what energizes individuals.
Leaders should prioritize alignment over rigid job descriptions.

This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: https://www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable.

Register for “Why Your Spouse Acts That Way” here: workinggenius.com/marriage

The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. The Six Types of Working Genius assessment is the fastest and simplest way to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about

Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficial

Stay Connected with Patrick Lencioni
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The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni
Apple: https://apple.co/4iNz6Yn
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4iGGm8u
YouTube: https://bit.ly/Working-Genius-YouTube
Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/4hJKKSL), Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/6NWAZzkzl4ljxX7S2xkHvu), and YouTube (https://bit.ly/At-The-Table-YouTube).

Let us know your feedback via [email protected].

This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.

How is a lack of self-awareness quietly limiting your effectiveness?

Blind spots aren’t just personal quirks; they’re often the root of frustration, conflict, and stalled growth. In episode 111 of the Working Genius Podcast, Patrick Lencioni, Cody Thompson, and Matthew Lencioni explore how the Working Genius framework can expose what you can’t see about yourself. By increasing self-awareness and inviting honest feedback, you can turn hidden liabilities into opportunities for trust and growth.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00:00) Why Blind Spots Matter
A lack of self-awareness creates friction in relationships and at work.
People extend grace more easily when someone acknowledges their flaws.

(00:03:12) Understanding the Johari Window
The blind spot quadrant represents what others see, but you don’t.
Reducing this quadrant is critical for growth and effectiveness.

(00:06:40) When You Think You’re Good at Everything
Believing you have no weaknesses creates frustration for others.
Mislabeling frustrations as strengths leads to burnout and poor collaboration.

(00:10:33) The Power of Naming Your Weaknesses
Self-awareness builds trust and invites support from others.
Denial pushes feedback away and isolates you from help.

(00:15:26) Giving and Receiving Hard Feedback
Honest feedback is a gift, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Tools like Working Genius make difficult conversations easier and safer.

This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: https://www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable.

The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. The Six Types of Working Genius assessment is the fastest and simplest way to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about

Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficial

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The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni
Apple: https://apple.co/4iNz6Yn
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4iGGm8u
YouTube: https://bit.ly/Working-Genius-YouTube
Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/4hJKKSL), Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/6NWAZzkzl4ljxX7S2xkHvu), and YouTube (https://bit.ly/At-The-Table-YouTube).

Let us know your feedback via [email protected].

This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.

What does your Working Genius look like when you're under stress, and would you even recognize it in yourself?

In episode 110 of the Working Genius Podcast, Pat Lencioni, Cody Thompson, and Matt Lencioni explore what happens to each of the six Working Genius types when they're under stress, a state they call being "in the grip." Walking through Wonder, Invention, Discernment, Galvanizing, Enablement, and Tenacity letter by letter, the team uncovers how each type's greatest strengths can become their most challenging behaviors when unregulated. The conversation closes with a practical and compassionate framework for extending grace to teammates in the grip, recognizing that what looks like a flaw may simply be a strength operating under too much pressure.

Topics explored in this episode:

(00:00:03) Wonder in the Grip
Pat, Cody, and Matt introduce "in the grip,” what each Working Genius type looks like when strengths become distorted under stress.
The team explores the Wonder type, revealing how natural curiosity can spiral into analysis paralysis, endless questioning, and loss of direction.

(00:05:15) ADHD, Procrastination, and Invention in the Grip
Pat connects Wonder under stress to procrastination and ADHD misdiagnosis.
The team turns to Invention, describing how the drive to generate ideas becomes chaotic under stress.

(00:09:46) Discernment and Galvanizing Under Pressure
The group unpacks Discernment in the grip, how the healthy instinct to evaluate ideas can tip into hypercriticism, cynicism, and judgment under stress.
They move to Galvanizing, exploring how the drive to inspire movement can turn into pushiness and impatience when stress takes hold.

(00:15:41) Enablement and Tenacity When Unregulated
The team explores Enablement in the grip, how the instinct to help can lead to overcommitment, exhaustion, and quiet resentment when the enabler's own needs go unmet.
They turn to Tenacity, noting how discipline and follow-through can slide into rigidity, isolation, and frustration with those perceived as lazy or uncommitted.

(00:20:28) Applying This to Teams, Pairings, and Closing
Pat, Cody, and Matt explore how genius pairs stop working together under stress, and how leaders can use this framework to start grace-filled conversations with struggling team members.

This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: https://www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable.

The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. The Six Types of Working Genius assessment is the fastest and simplest way to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about

Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficial

Stay Connected with Patrick Lencioni
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The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni
Apple: https://apple.co/4iNz6Yn
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4iGGm8u
YouTube: https://bit.ly/Working-Genius-YouTube

Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://apple.co/4hJKKSL), Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/6NWAZzkzl4ljxX7S2xkHvu), and YouTube (https://bit.ly/At-The-Table-YouTube).
Let us know your feedback via [email protected].

This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.