She's So Lucky

#333: If you’ve been telling yourself you want more, but your actions haven’t caught up yet… this episode is your nudge to close that gap.
In this week’s installment of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by journalist, creator, and professional question-asker, the incomparable, Danielle Robay.
This conversation is a masterclass in what happens when you stop waiting and start moving.
We talk about the discipline of betting on yourself, the courage it takes to walk away from spaces that undervalue you, and why curiosity might be the most underrated success strategy there is. Danielle didn’t just hope for opportunity — she positioned herself for it, executed on it, and kept going even when the answer was no over and over again.
Because the truth is, luck favors the woman who’s already moving. The one who put herself at the bus stop — prepared, decisive and ready to get on when the door opens.
This episode is for you if…
Your curiosity is pulling you in a new direction.
You want to question everything.
You need the reminder that luck favors the people who prepare, show up and take the shot.
You say you want more yet you’re still negotiating with your comfort zone.
You’re done romanticizing your potential and are ready to execute.
You know you’re meant for more and you’re finally ready to move like it.
You’re ready to stop fearing rejection and understand that trying is what creates momentum and success.

Episode Links:
Follow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/
Follow Danielle on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellerobay
Listen to Danielle’s Podcast Question Everything: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/question-everything/id1550883345
Follow Danielle on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEzBqnMsqkOI09wW7EJyu5A
For everything else, check out Danielle’s Website: https://www.daniellerobay.com/

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#332: If you’ve been waiting for permission, validation, or a sign to make a change, this is it.
In this episode of the “How to Get What You Want” series, I’m sitting down with psychic medium, spiritual teacher, and author Aycee Brown for a conversation about the one thing standing between you and the life you want: telling yourself the truth.
Because most of the time when you feel stuck, it’s a sign of self-rejection, not confusion.
Together, we unpack why clarity is the real catalyst for manifestation, how many of us unconsciously abandon our desires to be more palatable, and what it looks like to trust your body, your intuition, and your inner knowing.
If luck is created through alignment, then honesty is where it begins.
Aycee also shares how spiritual frameworks like astrology, numerology, and human design can deepen your self-understanding, why success can feel more threatening than failure, and how small acts of self-trust build the life you’ve been envisioning.
Consider this your reminder: you don’t need to become someone else to have the life you want. You need to embody who you already are.

This episode is for you if…
You know you want more and you’re done pretending you don’t.
You’re ready to be honest about what you want.
You’ve outgrown who you used to be.
You’re learning that self-trust is the real strategy.
You want clarity — not confusion — guiding your next chapter.
You’re done waiting for luck to knock on your door and are ready to create it.

Episode Links:
Follow Aycee on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayceebrown/
Follow Aycee on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ayceebrown
Listen to Aycee’s podcast “Is My Aura on Straight?” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-my-aura-on-straight/id1459927270
Order Aycee’s new book “Embody Your Magic” out February 17: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780063360327

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Connect with Les:
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#331: In this unfiltered solo episode, I break down why February is about claiming what’s yours and what it really takes to get what you want. Not the aesthetic version. Not the “manifest and wait” version. The real version: with clarity, courage, discipline, and having that dog in you.
From recognizing your unfair advantage, to building the capacity to hold bigger dreams, to shooting your shot even when you’re scared, I walk you through how luck is actually built through bold decisions, uncomfortable growth, and choosing yourself even when it feels risky

✨ In this episode:
I share personal stories about how early conditioning and outside voices can plant desires in us that aren’t actually ours
Why it’s crucial to get honest about what you truly want (not what you’ve been told to want)
I tell you the truth about “being humble” and why it makes you small
Leaning into your real gifts instead of copying others and why that alignment is key
Why the people closest to you may struggle the most with your growth
How to protect your dreams without cutting everyone off
How to unlock your unfair advantage, shoot your shot and get louder about your desires

If you’ve been feeling a pull toward something bigger but haven’t given yourself full permission to be honest about what you want, this episode is your wake-up call.

Keep in Touch with Les:
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#330: The more successful you get, the easier life gets…right?
In our final installment of the Breaking the Rules series, today I’m welcoming back the one, the only, Tricia Lee, real estate powerhouse for a truly activating and inspiring conversation about what it takes to truly reach your potential.
From choosing discomfort on purpose to breaking into new rooms and establishing new versions of yourself, Tricia shares why expansion requires ego checks, bold moves, and a willingness to stop playing it safe.
We talk about:
How to intentionally put yourself in rooms where no one knows you to push yourself and expand your opportunities.
The strategies Tricia used to build the emotional muscle to tolerate discomfort, criticism, and setting ego aside while growing her brand and career.
What it really takes to break into new spaces when you’re already successful in one lane.
What’s required of you to level up to your fullest potential.
Why growth never gets easier and how to develop the resilience needed to keep growing.
How bold preparation, relationship-building, and “act as if” energy turn ambition into real, tangible results.

Episode Links:
Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialee
Listen to Tricia’s Podcast, Short and Sweet, here.
For exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.

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Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.
ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.
Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl
IM8: Give your body what it deserves with IM8! Go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus ten percent off your order.

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#329: If you need confirmation that it’s okay to follow a path that isn’t linear, this episode is it. In this week’s installment of the Breaking the Rules series, I chat with entrepreneur, investor, and creative multi-hyphenate Hannah Bronfman about rewriting timelines, releasing perfection, and trusting the turns that lead you exactly where you’re meant to be.
From building businesses and investing in women’s health to evolving publicly and creating a life beyond rigid five-year plans, Hannah shares what it really means to break out of the boxes you were placed in—and design your own blueprint.

This episode is for you if:
You’re feeling like you want to make a change, but you’re scared to let go of the identity or path you originally planned.
You no longer wants to live by linear timelines or traditional ideas of success.
You want to build wealth, invest in, and support women-owned businesses but don’t know where to start.
You’re ready to embrace evolution as part of creating your next chapter.
You want to become more comfortable in unfamiliar spaces.

Episode Links:
Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbronfman/
Follow Hannah on Substack: https://substack.com/@hannahslist
Check out the CEO Club on Amazon Prime, airing on February 23rd: https://press.amazonmgmstudios.com/us/en/original-series/the-ceo-club/1

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RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.
Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.
Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.
Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.
Hungryroot: Take advantage of this exclusive offer: For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com/lucky and use code LUCKY.

Keep in Touch with Les:
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