Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbreaking late miscarriage after IUI in a clinic, to finding success through home insemination—and thawing donor sperm under a boob.As we dive deeper, the episode unpacks the layered complexities of queer family building. The couple reflects on the fear and beauty of non-biological parenthood, the nuanced choice between known and anonymous sperm donors, and how a simple donor mix-up led to a deeper understanding of what really makes a family. With humor, heart, and radical honesty, Kim and Katie show us the power of queer intentionality, the importance of early and open conversations with their daughter, and the legal logistics we all have to consider—especially now.Through all the twists and turns, their story is a beautiful reminder: queer families are built with love, purpose, and a whole lot of intention.🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!🏳️🌈Check out Everywhere is Queer! IOS l Android🏳️🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages here.🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!🏳️🌈 Key TakeawaysFrom foster certification to home ICI: A uniquely intentional family-building journeyThe donor mix-up that became a story for the agesNavigating miscarriage, grief, and queer resilienceThe non-bio parent perspective and bonding fearsChoosing an anonymous donor—and rethinking it years laterLegal protections, second-parent adoption, and estate planningTalking to their daughter about donor conception, early and often📍 Bonus: The sperm vial was thawed under a boob. Yes, really.🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈Kim and Katie are a married lesbian couple raising their 7-year-old daughter in a predominantly straight suburb outside of Philadelphia. After facing unexpected hurdles—including a pregnancy loss, a donor switch, and the legal logistics of queer parenting—they’re now parenting with joy, honesty, and visibility. Their story is a testament to the power of love, intention, and community.🏳️🌈 Resources MentionedCalifornia Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVEZach’s Safari by Vanessa Brantley-Newton (children’s book about donor conception)🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email
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