Episode 41 - My partner wants a child, but I have doubts
Daisy (37) is indecisive about whether to have a child, while her boyfriend wants to become a parent. She feels pressured to make a decision but doesn't know how to proceed. Daisy reflects on the tension between her desire to remain a free spirit and the responsibilities that come with motherhood. Ultimately, she realizes that the answer might lie in following her deeper desires rather than her fears.Do you also have a personal problem and would you like to discuss it with Berthold in the podcast? We would love to have you as our guest! Click here for more info and the application form. This year, the best-selling tear-off calendar in the Netherlands is also available in English for the first time! Order here: www.omdenken.nl/calendar.
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Episode 40 - I feel like an orphan
Maaike (23) has a difficult relationship with her mother and has no contact with her biological father. The frequent conflicts with her mother are making her consider cutting ties completely, but this would leave her feeling like an orphan, which she doesn't want either.Do you also have a personal problem and would you like to discuss it with Berthold in the podcast? We would love to have you as our guest! Click here for more info and the application form. This year, the best-selling tear-off calendar in the Netherlands is also available in English for the first time! Order here: www.omdenken.nl/calendar.
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Episode 39 - I don’t reply to texts or calls
Julian (24) has difficulty responding to text messages and phone calls from family and friends. Despite feeling bad about it and trying various methods to change, he repeatedly falls back into this habit. Together with Berthold, Julian is exploring the underlying causes of this pattern to find a solution.Do you also have a personal problem and would you like to discuss it with Berthold in the podcast? We would love to have you as our guest! Click here for more info and the application form. This year, the best-selling tear-off calendar in the Netherlands is also available in English for the first time! Order here: www.omdenken.nl/calendar.
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Episode 38 - Unmet standards
Nicole (60) often feels rejected or judged unfairly by both her mother and her oldest daughter. She is bothered by their emphasis on appearances, such as makeup and clothing, which makes her feel she never meets their standards. By reflecting on her relationship with her mother, she also gains insights into her relationship with her daughter.Do you also have a personal problem and would you like to discuss it with Berthold in the podcast? We would love to have you as our guest! Click here for more info and the application form. This year, the best-selling tear-off calendar in the Netherlands is also available in English for the first time! Order here: www.omdenken.nl/calendar.
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Episode 37 - I am an attention seeker
Mirjam (44) feels like an attention seeker and fears that others perceive her the same way, especially concerning medical issues. She has a medical history that includes fighting breast cancer and several infections. She hopes to find a strategy to let go of this self-image.Do you also have a personal problem and would you like to discuss it with Berthold in the podcast? We would love to have you as our guest! Click here for more info and the application form. This year, the best-selling tear-off calendar in the Netherlands is also available in English for the first time! Order here: www.omdenken.nl/calendar.
Listen to intimate coaching conversations between Berthold Gunster and his guests. Together, they’ll explore the guest's personal problem and try to make it feel lighter or make it disappear altogether. 🔄 'Flip thinking' is the Dutch art of turning problems into opportunities. In the Netherlands we call this 'omdenken'. Learn more about Flip Thinking and the podcast at www.flip-thinking.com. ✨ Curious how the guests of the podcast are doing now? Many of them shared an update with us a few weeks or months after their conversation with Berthold. Click here to read all the stories.📚 Berthold Gunster is the author of international bestseller 'Flip Thinking: The Life-changing Art of Transforming Problems into Opportunities'. In this book he introduces the power of flip thinking to transform stuck-in-the-mud, pessimistic 'yes, but' thinking into an inventive, curious 'yes, and' mindset. Berthold presents his fifteen flip thinking strategies that will transform your thinking away from limitations and threats and towards possibilities and opportunities. His strategies and stories will have you approaching even the most challenging problems, at work, home and at play, in a whole new way.