Nobody tells you that the struggles so many neurodivergent women experience during pregnancy, birth, and early motherhood might be connected to how their brain is wired. Because so often, nobody knows. Not the healthcare providers, and not the mothers themselves.
That missing language doesn't just delay a diagnosis. It delays understanding, support, and the ability to make sense of your own experience.
In this episode of The Science of Motherhood, Dr Renee White chats with Linda Hollenberg, Autistic mother, research advisor, and learning coordinator and parent educator for Reframing Autism, to explore what pregnancy, birth, and early motherhood can look like through a neurodivergent lens. Together they unpack what it means to move through those seasons without the framework to name what you're experiencing, and what changes when you finally have it.
This is Part 2 of The Science of Motherhood's three-part autism series. If you haven't listened to Part 1 with Dr Abbey Love yet, it's a great place to start.
You'll hear about:
Why sensory sensitivity made HG uniquely devastating for Linda
How autistic shutdown during labour affects self-advocacy
What continuity of care actually means when you're neurodivergent
Why executive functioning challenges are often invisible in postpartum
How normalising neediness builds community rather than dependence
Understanding your own experience is one of the most grounding things you can do. This conversation is a step toward that, whether you have a diagnosis or not.
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Resources & Links
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🔗 Explore the Aspect New Parents Hub: Autistic Pregnancy and Parenthood Hub
🔗 Connect with Aspect on Instagram: @aspect_aus
This episode is proudly supported by Fill Your Cup, Australia's first doula village, with doulas available across Melbourne, Geelong, Sydney, Newcastle, Brisbane, Gold Coast, Hobart and Perth.
Disclaimer The information on this podcast presented by Fill Your Cup is not a substitute for independent professional advice. Nothing contained in this episode is intended to be used as medical advice and it is not intended to be used to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease, nor should it be used for therapeutic purposes or as a substitute for your own health professional's advice.