Do You F*cking Mind?

On this HN episode, I get to answer your questions and they are GOOD. ⁠We get to the bottom of:



Why you may be so bad at picking the right partner, how to change something within you to make better choices moving forward.



Why you do not have to feel guilty for cutting a friend off even if they have zero friends (ahem, accountability)



How to deal with a painfully negative mother (whom you adore and do not want to cut out)



And what to do if you are at the 7 year mark, unsure if you should stay or leave when there is a house and 2 dogs involved.

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If rejection (or even perceived rejection) feels physically painful, overwhelming, or impossible to shake, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we explore the psychology behind Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) a widely recognized experience (though not a formal diagnosis) that’s especially common in people with ADHD, and anyone who struggles with intense emotional reactions to rejection, criticism, or disapproval.

This episode covers:


What RSD actually feels like and why it can feel physically painful


The difference between real rejection and perceived rejection


Common triggers (and why perception matters more than reality)


What’s happening in the brain during an RSD spiral


Signs you may be experiencing RSD


Why people-pleasing, avoidance, overachievement, and rumination don’t actually help


How RSD differs from “normal” emotional sensitivity


The link between RSD, ADHD, and emotional dysregulation

This episode isn’t about “toughening up” or stopping emotions from happening.

It’s about learning how to move through rejection without losing yourself to it and rebuilding a sense of control, safety, and self-trust.

If you’ve ever thought, “I know this is irrational, but it feels unbearable,” this conversation will help you understand why and what to do next.

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Episode 10 – Choosing Peace Is the Power Move

(How Stability, Clarity, and Balance Actually Give You Everything You Want)The Reset You Actually Need

For a long time, hustle culture convinced us that being busy meant we were getting somewhere.

In Episode 10 — the final episode of The Reset You Actually Need , we explore why choosing peace isn’t giving up on ambition, but refining it into something sustainable, intelligent, and far more effective.

This episode breaks down:


Why hustle culture confuses motion with real progress


How constant urgency fragments attention and fuels anxiety


Why peace of mind increases performance rather than complacency


How balance isn’t a compromise it’s an optimisation strategy


Why inconsistency creates anxiety and the illusion of “falling behind”


How overstimulation kills clarity, creativity, and fulfilment


Why slower, long-form thinking leads to better decisions and deeper satisfaction

We talk about the gap between where you are and where you think you should be and how that gap is often the source of chronic anxiety. Not because you’re failing, but because you’re trying to sprint instead of stabilise.

Choosing peace doesn’t mean doing less.
It means doing the right things, consistently, without burning yourself out.

This episode is about redefining success so you don’t have to escape your own life to survive it.

This episode concludes a 10-day mini-series designed to help you reset your mindset, rebuild self-trust, and step into the year calm, clear, and self-led.

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Day 9. Less Proving, More Choosing

The Reset You Actually Need

So much exhaustion comes from trying to prove your worth.

In Day 9 of The Reset You Actually Need, we explore what happens when you stop performing for validation and start making decisions from clarity, self-trust, and alignment instead.

This episode breaks down:


The difference between proving and choosing and why it matters


Why proving is reactive, while choosing is grounded and powerful


How the need to prove often comes from unresolved self-doubt


Why proving keeps you busy, but choosing actually moves you forward


How choosing makes boundaries feel simpler and more natural


The discomfort that comes with choosing and why it’s necessary

This episode isn’t about becoming cold, dismissive, or disconnected.

When you stop trying to convince people of your value, your decisions get quieter, clearer, and far more effective.

Part of a 10-day mini-series designed to help you reset your mindset, rebuild self-trust, and move through the year with calm authority and direction.
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Day 8 – Until You Learn to Rest, You Will Not Get Ahead

The Reset You Actually Need

So many people think they’re resting but they’re actually avoiding.

In Day 8 of The Reset You Actually Need, we explore why confusing rest with avoidance keeps you feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and stuck in the same place, even when you’re “taking breaks.”

This episode covers:


The difference between real rest and avoidance behaviours


Why your mood and energy don’t change when rest isn’t restorative


The kinds of tasks people avoid and why


How to tell if you truly rested or just numbed out


Why sleep alone doesn’t fix exhaustion


Forms of rest that actually restore energy and calm the nervous system


Why some activities are more restful than bed rotting


How to wind down on your own without avoidance

If you feel like you’re constantly tired, overwhelmed, or needing more time off — this episode will help you understand what kind of rest you actually need, and how to get it without sabotaging your momentum.

Part of a 10-day mini-series designed to help you reset your mindset, rebuild self-trust, and move through the year with clarity and calm self-leadership.
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