172 | shining light on high support needs with Jessie Mewshaw, MS, CCC-SLP
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay chats with Jessie Mewshaw, a speech language pathologist, to discuss the often overlooked topic of medium and high support needs in autism. They dive into why this conversation is vital, sharing personal experiences and professional insights. Jessie discusses her unique journey into the field and her current work with nonspeaking and minimally speaking autistic individuals. Key themes include the importance of neurodiversity-affirming care, better training and support for providers and caregivers, and the need for more accessible and financially supported resources. The episode also highlights the significance of listening to diverse autistic voices and fostering a community that supports all levels of need.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:44 Meet Jessie Mewshaw: Speech Language Pathologist01:21 Welcome to the Podcast: Dr. Tay's Background06:01 Jesse's Journey into Speech Pathology07:46 Experiences in Australia: Life-Changing Lessons12:47 Challenges in the US: Lack of Support Programs17:18 Evaluation Barriers and Presuming Competence21:55 The Importance of Motor Systems in Autism27:44 Navigating the Journey Together28:24 The Importance of Medical Training30:11 Understanding Dysregulation34:08 Voices of Families38:01 Advocacy and Community43:46 Challenges in Neurodivergent Care50:21 Call to Action and Resources50:48 Remembering Victor Perez51:59 Final Thoughts and Connections RESOURCES ⚡️ example accounts of moderate and high support need autistic individuals:@aether.autistic@angry_autist@blackspectrumscholar@charliesvoice1@dannywithwords@getaway_autist_mobile@justkeepstimming@kaishawna_music@quirkthriveswithnoah@zebulontheplanet ⚡️ connect with Jessie on Instagram @ms_jessies_speech_world and explore her services here ⚡️ resource for non-speaking individuals >> When Models Aren't "Sticking": A One-Day Intensive for Supporting Minimally Speaking GLPs (use code JESSIE for 10% off) ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a
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171 | embracing uncertainty in this season: personal reflections and parenting applications
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay addresses the current uncertainties of the autism space and how it applies to clinical practice, her personal business, and your parenting journey. She provides an honest reflection on the challenges of navigating unknowns, both personally and within the context of autism care. Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of serving oneself, building resiliency, and creating community support. She offers practical tips and shares her experiences to help parents make decisions about evaluating and supporting their autistic children amidst the current political climate. Throughout the episode, she encourages listeners to adopt a balanced approach, integrating self-care and external support while fostering a sense of community.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Updates00:51 Navigating the Unknowns01:30 About Dr. Tay and the Podcast02:32 Current Issues in Autism and Evaluations09:47 Empowering Parents in Decision Making13:19 Personal Reflections and Business Adjustments22:15 Self-Care and Serving Your Family26:48 Addressing the Inner Critic27:09 Understanding the Marching Order Part27:45 The Fear of Stopping28:02 Balancing Helper Identity and Self-Care29:20 Integrating Internal Family Systems29:55 Practical Tips for Self-Understanding30:49 Navigating Financial Conversations with Kids32:33 Building a Support Network33:06 The Importance of Vulnerability33:57 Reevaluating and Pausing for Clarity36:06 The Tower Moment Analogy43:00 Creating Community and Connection47:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement48:13 Ways to Get More ValueRESOURCES ⚡️Dive deeper with episodes mentioned: 38 on human design, 118 on sensory regulation supports (with Courtney English) and 164 on reasons to get evaluated now ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay
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170 | let’s chat shame, language, and autism research
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Think of this episode like sitting down with Dr. Tay to chat about a variety of topics, while she is getting ready for morning sessions. She shares her struggles with neck pain and ties it to stress and shame while discussing the application to your parenting journey. Dr. Tay then dives into the recent political climate, particularly RFK Jr.'s controversial remarks about autism and the proposed national registry. She discusses the ongoing robust research into the causes of autism, language use in the autism community, and the importance of supporting high support needs families. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Setup01:06 Personal Updates and Daily Life01:25 Stress and Physical Health05:13 Therapy and Somatics07:46 Shame and Parenting09:34 Political Climate and Autism10:09 RFK Junior's Remarks on Autism11:14 Autism Research and Funding23:17 National Autism Registry Concerns26:04 Conclusion and Future Plans Like the format of this podcast? Let Dr. Tay know! She is exploring options for how to best serve you through this podcast! RESOURCES ⚡️Instagram posts referenced in this episode >>@autismoutloud’s post on autism research funding @fidget.and.fries post on high support needs and a false sense of hope ⚡️while the national autism registry was only briefly touched on (more to come here and/or on Dr. Tay’s social media), you can take action now and express your concerns to your representatives. thanks to @blackspectrumscholar, here are templates you can use ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay.
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169 | from navigating a medical condition and developmental disabilities to advocacy with Camille Joy
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay is joined by Camille Joy, an advocate and host of the Moments of Joy podcast. They discuss Camille's journey as a mother of five boys, including her youngest son Maison, who has a congenital heart defect, autism, and intellectual disability. They dive into the importance of early diagnosis, navigating the education system, and advocating for children's needs. Camille shares her experiences with challenging the status quo, particularly around getting Maison access to music and art classes. The conversation also touches on emotional processing, the significance of support systems, and Camille's initiatives including her podcast and children's book, The Adventures of Maison and Mr. Straw: Mac and Cheese Please.00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement00:44 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission01:55 Camille Joy's Family and Advocacy Journey02:36 Maison's Diagnosis and Early Intervention03:26 Challenges and Realizations in Parenting05:28 Navigating Medical and Educational Systems10:29 Advocating for Mason's Education17:08 Using AI for Advocacy and Legal Rights21:17 Understanding the Importance of Data Collection22:15 Advocating for Your Child's Needs25:34 Navigating Emotional Challenges33:25 The Journey of Starting a Podcast35:46 Introducing Maison's Adventures39:25 Conclusion and ResourcesRESOURCES⚡️ purchase Camille and Maison’s book here (profits go directly to a savings account for Maison)⚡️ listen in to the Moments of Joy podcast here⚡️follow her on Instagram, TikTok, & Facebook ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay
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168 | what therapies are families ACTUALLY doing?
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares what families with autistic children are ACTUALLY doing in terms of therapy and support services. Emphasizing the importance of quality over quantity, Dr. Tay discusses common therapies like ABA, speech therapy, occupational therapy, and mental health support. The episode also highlights the significance of individualized plans tailored to each family's needs and reminds parents that it's okay to prioritize their child's well-being and capacity over an overwhelming number of services. Real-life examples from listeners are included to illustrate the diverse approaches families take. Dr. Tay encourages parents to trust their intuition and focus on what truly benefits their child.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:20 Understanding Therapy Options01:36 Balancing Therapy Demands02:57 Real-Life Family Experiences04:09 Diverse Therapy Approaches11:42 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement RESOURCES ⚡️ additional episodes that may be helpful: "26 | why ABA therapy is controversial?", "31 | three "system issues" you may be facing with your child's autism care", and "110 | what is PDA?" ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay
Over EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids
welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism.
I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade.
on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here.
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