214. What No One Tells You About Sex After Kids: How To Rebuild Intimacy, Reclaim Your Sexual Confidence & Be The Same Slut You Were Before
We sat down with Susanna Brisk, Sexual Intuitive®️ and certified sex educator who's been helping individuals and couples for nearly a decade reignite their sexual spark. We're diving deep into what really happens to sex and intimacy after having kids, exploring how parenthood can reshape desire and sharing practical tools to reclaim your slutty self. We cover:
How to reignite sexual connection after having kids – tips for rebuilding desire and intimacy at any stage of parenting
Common myths about sex after kids – and why losing your libido doesn’t mean your sex life is over
Practical ways to communicate about sex with your partner post-baby – even when you're tired or touched out
Understanding mismatched sex drives in long-term relationships – and how to meet in the middle
Creating emotional and physical space for intimacy with kids at home – yes, it’s possible (and v necessary)
How to explore your erotic blueprint as a parent – and why rediscovering pleasure can be empowering
Real strategies for prioritizing intimacy without guilt – even with a toddler banging on the door
Why sexual identity shifts after parenthood—and how to embrace that change
Tools for reconnecting with your body and desire – especially after childbirth or parenting burnout
Why talking about sex openly can strengthen your relationship post-kids
Connect with Susanna:
Susanna's Website
Susanna's Instagram
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213. Sex, Intimacy & Relationships While Pregnant + Postpartum
This week we're diving into all things intimacy while pregnant and postpartum. Cass is answering listener questions about her experience navigating sex and relationships as a new mom. We cover:
WTF a mucus plug is
How Cass navigated body changes while pregnant and postpartum and a PSA on stretch marks
Normalizing postpartum vaginas
How Cass navigated sex and intimacy while pregnant and postpartum
A pep talk for when postpartum doesn't go the way you hoped it would
What advice Cass would give to partners of pregnant and postpartum people
What it's like dealing with mom shame
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212. Q +A: "Does Penis Size REALLY Matter?"
In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips, personal experience, and a bunch of research.
The Question: "I think my penis might be too big for comfortable penetrative sex with my girlfriend. We’ve had open conversations about it and she’s super reassuring, but I still end up feeling guilty, like my body is somehow making things harder (pun unintended, but also… not wrong). What is actually considered a “normal” penis size? Do women even care about size as much as we’re led to believe? And most importantly—how do we make penetrative sex work for both of us, or what are some other ways we can stay intimate without feeling like we’re missing out?"
We're covering:
What the research says about "normal" penis size and what partners are looking for
Alternatives to PIV sex that you can try
Tips for making PIV sex more comfortable (toy, tools, and positions)
Are some penises too big for condoms?
How to find YOUR condom size
BONUS: tips for if you feel like your penis is too "small" for penetrative sex
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211. When the Sex Fizzles: Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships
You know when you're in a long term relationship and the sex just gets a little... meh? Maybe it's feeling routine, lacking spice, or just isn't hitting how it used to. That's why we're chatting up Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist with a game plan to get your sex life back on track. We cover:
The science behind why passion ebbs and flows over the course of a long term relationship
What a truly PASSIONATE relationship can look like
Tips for flirting with your partner
Action steps for rekindling the passion in your relationship
The importance of NOVELTY and how to build it into your sex life
Why you need to be having bougie sex
How create a passionate relationship with YOURSELF as a single person
Connect with Dr. Diane:
On her website
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210. What Is a Normal Libido? Understanding Sex Drive Differences In Relationships
We're joined once again by the LOVELY Susan Morgan Taylor, MA a somatic sex therapist and relationship coach, but this time we're diving headfirst into LIBIDO. We cover:
What a normal libido looks like & how we define low vs. high libido
Common myths and misconceptions about having a low libido
How to navigate sex drive differences within a relationship
The importance of the 3 N's: Noticing, Naming & Negotiating
Sex acts for when you're low on energy
How to bring this conversation to your partner
Connect with Susan:
On her website
On Instagram
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Welcome to Honeydew Me, a podcast that goes into the bedroom and beyond with your hosts Emma Norman and Cass Anderson. We believe that everyone deserves to have great sex, feel good in their bodies and love themselves and while we may not be experts, our guests are. Join us as we explore the ins and outs of sex, bodies, confidence, and all those burning questions you've been dying to get answered.
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