The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast

Teachers are burning out. Classrooms are becoming harder to manage. And children are struggling to regulate their emotions in school. In this episode, clinical psychologist Dr Marianne Trent speaks with educational psychologist Dr Adam McCartney about what educational psychologists actually do in schools - and how psychological thinking can help transform behaviour, emotional regulation and staff wellbeing across entire school systems. Using real case studies from UK schools, we explore classroom behaviour challenges, teacher burnout, SEND pressures and practical emotional regulation strategies that help children and teachers thrive. Whether you're an aspiring psychologist, teacher, SEN professional, or simply curious about how schools support children's emotional wellbeing, this episode provides a powerful look at psychology in action.
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Highlights
00:00 Why teacher burnout and behaviour challenges are rising in schools
01:21 What educational psychologists actually do in schools
04:27 Case study: a school system in crisis and how psychology helped stabilise it
06:08 Why role confusion in school staff fuels burnout and conflict
09:59 Supporting distressed pupils while stabilising the wider school system
13:04 The power of systemic thinking in educational psychology
14:38 Why reflective practice is essential for teachers and school leaders
17:30 Case study: a “difficult” Year 4 class and emotional regulation
19:11 Observing classrooms and understanding teacher dynamics
22:14 Teaching emotional literacy through the classroom “corners” strategy
25:23 Why teacher relationships regulate children’s nervous systems
29:04 Why children sometimes seek attention from teachers
31:59 Doing better when we know better in education
32:03 What education might look like in the age of AI
33:32 Why creativity, connection and collaboration will remain essential skills

Links:
Listen to Adam's Podcast, Between Two Psychs: https://www.dradammccartney.com/betweentwopsychs
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https://www.instagram.com/dradammcartney/
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What Teenage Mothers Really Need - A Psychologist’s PerspectiveTeenage pregnancy is often framed as a social problem, a failure, or a life “ruined.” But what if the real issue isn’t the pregnancy - it’s the stigma, judgement, and low expectations placed on young mothers?
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr Hayley Lugassy, an educational psychologist who became a mother at 15. We explore the psychological impact of teenage pregnancy, the harm caused by shame-based responses from families and professionals, and what truly supports better outcomes for both young mothers and their children.
We discuss teenage motherhood, attachment, stigma, poverty, safeguarding, education pathways, UK benefits, and how investing in young parents can transform lives.
This episode is essential listening for parents, professionals, aspiring psychologists, teachers, and anyone interested in trauma-informed and compassionate approaches to teenage pregnancy.You do not need to be a young parent to find this powerful – this is about how we respond to people at vulnerable turning points in their lives.
⏱️ Timestamps
00:00 Why teenage pregnancy is so often misunderstood
02:50 Falling pregnant at 14 and family conflict
05:39 Judgement from professionals during birth
08:32 What parents should do when their teenage daughter is pregnant
12:11 Reframing “ruined life” narratives
14:38 Poverty, food insecurity and survival
16:21 The UK benefits system and long-term investment
18:26 What gold-standard support could look like
21:50 Why young mothers need mentorship, not surveillance
25:50 Becoming a psychologist after teenage motherhood
29:37 The impact of low expectations
31:29 Practical support available in the UK today

Links:
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In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, I’m joined by Dr Emma Hepburn, Clinical Psychologist and creator of The Psychology Mum, to explore burnout, shame in mental health professionals, creativity in clinical psychology, and what happens when your body forces you to stop. We discuss how Emma’s illustrations began in NHS brain injury groups, how her “capacity cup” drawing went viral during the pandemic, and how social media traction unexpectedly led to publishing opportunities.
We unpack the psychology of burnout, emotional exhaustion, stress overload, shame narratives, and why even clinical psychologists are not immune to mental health difficulties.
Emma also introduces her fourth book, The Anti-Burnout Book, and explains how visual metaphors like the match, the teeny tiny thing, Brian the Brain, and the tortoise help bring psychological theory to life.
This episode is relevant for clinical psychologists, aspiring psychologists, NHS staff, teachers, parents, creators, and anyone interested in burnout recovery, stress management, shame resilience, emotional regulation, and sustainable wellbeing.
Timestamps
00:00 – The quiet phase before burnout
02:35 – How The Psychology Mum began in NHS brain injury groups
05:20 – When Emma’s illustrations started to snowball
07:18 – Co-creation and why her work resonated during the pandemic
09:45 – Writing her first book just before lockdown
14:07 – Introducing her fourth book: The Anti-Burnout Book
16:42 – The Edinburgh weekend that became a turning point
20:35 – When your body says “stop”
22:09 – Burnout, shame, and being a clinical psychologist
24:32 – Externalising shame and the “negative ninja takeover”
28:45 – The “teeny tiny thing” that tips you over
30:07 – Why slowing down increases long-term achievement
33:06 – Technology, social media and burnout
34:43 – Where to find The Anti-Burnout Book

Links:
📲 Follow Dr Emma Hepburn on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepsychologymum/
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🖥️ Check out my short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.aspiring-psychologist.co.uk/online-courses
Ask Marianne your most pressing psychology career question and she will send you a FREE bespoke reply! Grab your free psychology success guide here and fill in the most pressing concern box: https://www.aspiring-psychologist.co.uk (scroll to the bottom of the page)
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In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, we explore what it’s really like working as a UK-trained Clinical Psychologist in the UAE. If you’ve ever wondered about relocating abroad, practising outside the NHS, navigating private healthcare systems, or balancing career progression with lifestyle changes, this conversation offers a realistic and informed perspective.
I’m joined by Dr Jack Nejand, a UK-trained Clinical Psychologist who moved from South London to Abu Dhabi. We discuss visas, licensing, tax differences, CAMHS-style work in the UAE, insurance-based healthcare models, relocation logistics, career development abroad, service development opportunities, and what life actually feels like on the ground.Whether you’re considering working as a psychologist overseas, exploring expat life, or simply curious about international career pathways in clinical psychology, this episode provides clarity without selling a fantasy.
This conversation is especially relevant for:
UK Clinical Psychologists considering relocation
DClinPsy applicants thinking long-term about career options
Psychologists navigating burnout or financial pressures
Anyone curious about working in private healthcare abroad

Timestamps:
00:00 – Why psychologists are considering working abroad
04:03 – How the opportunity to move to the UAE emerged
06:51 – Telling family and friends about relocating
08:27 – Why more young professionals are leaving the UK
10:00 – The lifestyle reality of living in Abu Dhabi
15:39 – Cohabitation laws and cultural considerations
17:00 – What CAMHS looks like in the UAE
21:02 – Insurance-based healthcare explained
25:15 – Clinical severity and thresholds compared to the NHS
27:27 – CPD, conferences and career development abroad
28:48 – Visas, licensing and Emirates ID
31:13 – Pension, leave and employment differences
34:52 – Bringing UK service models into UAE schools
38:37 – Assistant Psychologist roles and early-career pathways

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In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, we explore whether the popular “Let Them” mindset is always as healthy as it appears.I’m joined by Dr Rana Pishva, Clinical Psychologist, to unpack how ideas intended to support empowerment and boundary-setting can sometimes slip into emotional avoidance, disconnection, and relational rupture – particularly when applied rigidly or without reflection.Together, we discuss boundaries versus avoidance, curiosity versus control, and what happens when self-focused wellness messages are used to shut down difficult conversations rather than deepen understanding. We explore real clinical examples involving family relationships, holidays, romantic partners, and unmet emotional needs, alongside a thoughtful discussion about AI, validation, and why human connection still matters.This episode invites a more nuanced, compassionate approach to boundaries – one that balances self-respect with empathy, accountability, and relational repair.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Why the “Let Them” movement feels empowering but may hide avoidance
03:19 – When self-focused wellness becomes relational disconnection
04:24 – A clinical example: family holidays, boundaries, and disappointment
06:37 – Why boundaries aren’t about dropping emotional hand grenades
08:32 – The importance of curiosity in relationships
09:25 – AI, validation, and emotional outsourcing
11:51 – Why human understanding matters more than generic reassurance
15:12 – How “Let Them” can quietly erode emotional intimacy
18:51 – Avoidance, anxiety, and the cost of protecting peace at all costs
22:05 – Grief, unmet needs, and what we lose when we disengage
28:13 – Using “Let Them” after reflection, not before
31:12 – When “Let Them” does help – and why context matters

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