EP 580: How Your Relationship with Your Parents Shapes Your Love Life (and How to Redefine it as an Adult)
Your relationship with your parents is the very first blueprint for love and whether you realize it or not, it impacts everything about how you show up in dating and relationships today. In this episode of the Let’s Get Vulnerable Podcast, I’m unpacking how those early dynamics shape you, why they’re so hard to change, and how you can finally heal and redefine the relationship with your parents as an adult.✨ Inside the episode, you’ll learn:Why your bond with your parents becomes the unconscious template for your romantic relationships.The role of your nervous system in keeping old patterns alive—and how to break free.How to move from black-and-white thinking about your parents into acceptance, curiosity, and healing.💫 If you want to go deeper into rewiring your brain for secure attachment, don’t miss my Secure.Soft.Magnetic private podcast. It’s a 5-part audio series designed to help you release past trauma and embody secure love and this month only, you can grab it for just $7 (normally $27) with code SECURESEPT. Get instant access here.If this episode speaks to you, know that this is exactly the kind of deep-rooted transformation we do inside my signature program, Empowered.Secure.Loved. If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns and you’re ready to finally create the healthy, secure love you deserve, I’d love to support you.💌 Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program here.🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 579: ADHD, Attachment Styles & Dopamine: How to Break the Painful Cycle and Create Secure Love
This episode is one I have been wanting to bring you for a long time… and I know so many of you have been waiting for it. We are talking all about ADHD, attachment styles, and dopamine.Inside the episode, I’m breaking it down in a way that is easy to understand, while also sharing parts of my own story and what has helped me. You’ll leave with clarity, compassion for yourself, and real tools you can begin using today.✨ Inside the episode, you’ll learn:How ADHD disrupts dopamine regulation and why that makes relationships feel like a rollercoaster.The connection between ADHD, insecure attachment, and painful cycles of hyper-focus, rapid closeness, withdrawal, and protest behaviors.Three powerful shifts you can make today to calm your nervous system, create stability, and support secure, healthy love.This is such an important topic, and I truly believe it will give you a new lens of understanding for yourself—or someone you care about. Please share this with a friend who needs it. 💛And remember, the most powerful thing you can do for your relationships (and your brain!) is to heal your past relational trauma and embody secure attachment. That’s exactly why I created the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program.👉 Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 578: 3 Lies You Tell Yourself When You're Dating Someone with Avoidant Attachment Style
Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ultimately keep you stuck. In this episode, I’m breaking down the three most common lies you tell yourself in this dynamic—and the truth that will set you free.✨ Inside the episode, you’ll discover:Why the belief “If I’m patient enough, they’ll eventually love me the way I need” keeps you settling for crumbs instead of receiving real intimacyHow internalizing their distance as “something is wrong with me” reinforces old childhood woundsThe painful trap of “If I just love them enough, I can fix them”—and what actually heals relationship patterns at the rootIf this feels familiar, I want you to know you are not broken, and it’s never too late to rewire your attachment style. You are so worthy of a love that is safe, secure, and consistent.✨ P.S. — Did you know I have a private podcast, Secure.Soft.Magnetic? It’s exclusive content you won’t hear anywhere else—bite-sized episodes with the exact tools and mindset shifts to help you embody secure attachment and show up with confidence in dating and relationships. Normally $27, but this month it’s just $7 with the code SECURESEPT.Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastAnd if you’re ready to take this work even deeper, I’d love to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program. This is where I walk you step by step through the process of healing attachment wounds so you can finally create the healthy love you deserve.👉 Click Here to Apply the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 577: Why Feeling Your Feelings is the Key to Healing (and Becoming Securely Attached)
This episode is one I know every single one of you needs — no matter where you’re at in your journey. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or feeling “stuck” in patterns that don’t serve you, learning how to actually feel your feelings is essential to healing and becoming securely attached.And since we’re diving deep into this foundational work, I want to make sure you don’t miss my September gift for you: my Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast on attachment styles and rewiring your brain for secure love. Normally $27, but this month it’s just $7 with the code SECURESEPT. It’s the perfect resource to pair with today’s episode. Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastInside the episode, we cover:✨ Why avoiding your emotions keeps you stuck in nervous system dysregulation ✨ The connection between unprocessed trauma, false beliefs, and unhealthy relationship patterns ✨ A guided self-compassion practice to remind you that you are worthy of love and supportIf this episode spoke to you, and you know it’s time to finally let go of the past, regulate your nervous system, and step into your highest and best self, I want to personally invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program.This is the proven framework that has helped hundreds of women just like you heal, build secure self-worth, and create the love (and life) they deserve. Don’t wait — your healing journey starts now. 💫👉 Click Here to Apply Now and Start Your Journey to Secure Love🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 576: Q&A: Life After “I Do”, Sobriety, Secure Love, and the Joy of Deep Connection (Part 2)
We are back for Part 2 of my wedding reflections — and this episode is extra vulnerable. 💛I’m sharing with you how life feels on the other side of “I do.” From the ways marriage has deepened my sense of safety, joy, and playfulness — to what it was like experiencing my entire wedding day sober (and why that was one of the best decisions of my life).Inside the episode, I talked about:The identity shift of becoming a wife and what that has meant for meHow secure attachment creates more safety, play, and laughter in your relationshipMy three-year sobriety journey — and the surprising ways it’s impacted my dating life, my healing, and now my marriageWhy weddings are not just about two people, but about honoring all the relationships that have poured into usThe magic of presence, connection, and celebrating without regretsIf you’ve ever wondered what it feels like to build a securely attached love story, or if you’ve been curious about sobriety and how it ties into healing, this episode is for you.And if you’re listening and thinking, “Okay Dr. Morgan, I want this. I want to heal, I want to feel safe in love, I want to create my own securely attached relationship” — I got you!Your next best step is to grab my Securely.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast. It’s a 5-part transformational audio experience designed to help you begin your healing journey. Use code SECURESEPT for a major discount — it’s my gift to you this month. 🌿Click Here to Grab the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private PodcastAnd if you’re ready to go all in and do the deeper work, come apply to the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Program. This is where I walk alongside you and help you become the securely attached version of you who attracts the love you deserve. 💫Click Here to Apply Now and Start Your Journey to Secure Love🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast episodes will provide you with tangible strategies that you can implement immediately to improve your life and attract the exact relationship you desire. Episodes will feature expert advice from your host and psychologist, Dr. Morgan Anderson, interviews with incredible people offering you their stories and wisdom, and LIVE coaching sessions where you will have an exclusive glimpse into the growth process as it is unfolding. Episodes are recorded in a live format to give you the feel of a live talk show; episodes are non-scripted and unedited. The content of the episodes is bound to make you laugh, cry, improve your relationships and go confidently after your dreams like never before. So what are you waiting for? Let’s Get Vulnerable!
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