Have you ever considered or questioned the politics behind your romantic desires? Is a man's attraction to you political? Do our dating preferences change with our politics?
In this episode, join Chidera as she recounts her racist experiences working in the strip club, and what dating politically means to her.
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MARRIAGE IS S*X WORK
Do you see marriage for the negotiated contract that it is, or do you see marriage as a purely spiritual union, devoid of any power dynamics or transactions? Does the idea of marriage being compared to s*x work offend you, or do you see the ways women are expected to perform sexual and domestic labour as a 'duty'? Do married women actually benefit from marriage?
In a rather contentious and controversial episode, join Chidera as she dives deeper on her perspective that marriage to straight men is the lowest paid form of s*x work.
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DATING OLDER MEN VS YOUNGER MEN
What's all the hype surrounding dating younger men? Are older men a better option? Should there be an age limit for age gap relationships?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses her preference - and why neither option is necessarily 'easier'.
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REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKE
Are you trapped in a redundant loop of making the same mistake? Does your impulsivity betray you? Are you finally ready to leave your destructive life behind?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the pitfalls of repeating the same mistakes women often make - and why feminism might be adding to your problems here.
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LISTEN TO THIS BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE!
Are you off to see that man? Do you feel tempted to make it easier for him? Is your gut reliable enough for you to be dating right now?
In this episode, join Chidera as she lovingly warns you about what to be vigilant of in this desperate dating market!
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As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
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