The Slumflower Hour

Does the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'?

In this episode, join Chidera as she disassembles this whole 'wife material' phrase and reminds us all of why we should be dubious of it!

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How can we explore rebellion in a way that keeps us safe and aligned with our standards?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the importance of rebelling against the rules men have assigned us - and why collecting money from men is a form of rebellion!

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Is it time to step away from him?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the cons of breaking up with him - and why frequent breakups might not be the worst thing in the world...

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They say men love the chase but women love being chased too!

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about the ways women can leverage the chase - and why we should be more selective of the validation we give men.

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So you finally let it rip on him...I guess he deserved it!

In this rather validating episode, join Chidera as she talks about why crashouts can sometimes be beneficial for you - and why every man deserves the wrath that comes from provoking a bleeding woman!

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