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Eat more protein. But how much is actually enough? Get stronger. But where do you even start? One day it’s a new workout. The next day it’s a new diet trend. There’s so much conflicting information around women’s health, it’s impossible to distinguish what’s backed by science and what’s just noise. 

That’s exactly why Tamsen asked Dr. Gabrielle Lyon, a board-certified physician leading the global shift in how we think about aging and health, to come on the podcast.

In this conversation, Dr. Gabrielle Lyon breaks down the science behind protein, skeletal muscle, and metabolic health and shares an actionable playbook you can use to build strength, slow decline, and take control of your future.

In this episode, she explains exactly what to eat and how to train so that you can feel mentally and physically stronger at every stage of your life.

If you’ve ever wondered:

- How much protein do I really need?

- What are the best protein sources for muscle growth?

- Do I need supplements like collagen and creatine?

- Will lifting weights make me bulky?

- How much resistance training is enough?

- Do I need a gym to see results?

- Where do I even begin?

…Then this is the episode for you. It’s one of the most practical, science-backed episodes we’ve had on protein, muscle growth, and longevity for women. After listening to this conversation, you’ll have the discernment you need to stop chasing trends and start building real, lasting strength.

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If you’ve been feeling exhausted, irritable, or done explaining yourself, or quietly wondering, “Why does everything feel so much harder right now?" this episode is for you.

In this powerful conversation on The Tamsen Show, Tamsen sits down with Melani Sanders, founder of the We Do Not Care Club and author of the We Do Not Care Club Handbook to talk about the moment so many women hit during perimenopause and menopause...

When they realize they are simply at capacity.

What emerges here is relief. The kind of relief that comes from boundaries, self-trust, and finally choosing yourself.

Melani shares the story behind her viral grocery store parking lot video, what was happening in her body after a hysterectomy, and how unaddressed hormonal changes, anxiety, insomnia, and identity shifts pushed her to say the quiet part out loud: I don’t care anymore.

That moment didn’t just go viral, it sparked a global movement.

Together, Tamsen and Melani talk about why this shift so often shows up in midlife, how women end up suffering in silence, and what happens when you stop managing expectations that no longer fit who you are.

This episode will make you feel seen, validated, and less alone in this chapter of life.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

- Why so many women experience burnout and emotional overload in midlife

- The connection between hysterectomy, perimenopause, menopause, and mental health

- What “being at capacity” really means for women’s bodies and brains

- How the We Do Not Care Club became a sisterhood for women who feel unseen

- Why stopping the over explaining can be one of the most healing choices you make

This conversation is honest, funny, and deeply validating.

Bookmark this episode and share it with every woman who needs to hear: you are not alone, and you are allowed to choose yourself.

If you liked this conversation, check out ‘The Real Reason You Feel Stuck (and How to Fix It)’ with leading trauma expert Anna Runkle.

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Trying to understand fertility today can feel overwhelming, confusing, and loaded with guilt. 

Especially if you’re in your 30s or 40s and constantly hearing conflicting advice about “the biological clock,” egg quality, and what you should or shouldn’t be doing right now.

Many women are left blaming themselves, chasing supplements, or relying on social media myths instead of clear medical guidance.

This is exactly why Tamsen sat down with Dr. Lucky Sekhon, board-certified reproductive endocrinologist, infertility specialist, and author of ‘The Lucky Egg.’

Dr. Sekhon has spent years treating patients and studying fertility from the inside and her work challenges many of the outdated narratives that still dominate conversations about getting pregnant, aging, and reproductive health.

In this episode, she explains what actually matters when it comes to fertility, what doesn’t, and why so much of what women are told creates unnecessary stress, shame, and misinformation.

They discuss:

- What the biological clock really means (and what it doesn’t)

- The difference between egg quantity and egg quality

- Why fertility is never entirely within your control (and why that’s important to understand)

- When to start thinking about fertility, even if you’re not ready to try

- How perimenopause, age, and reproductive health intersect

- What lifestyle changes actually help and which ones are overhyped

- The truth about supplements, egg freezing, and fertility preservation

- Why fertility struggles are never just “a woman’s issue”

This conversation cuts through fear-based messaging and replaces it with grounded, science-backed clarity.

Instead of telling women to do more, stress less, or “optimize everything,” Dr. Sekhon offers a more realistic, compassionate framework for understanding fertility, one that centers knowledge, choice, and mental health.

If you’re trying to get pregnant, thinking about your future options, or simply want to understand your body better, this episode will help you separate facts from myths and focus on what truly matters.

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Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t slow down is incredibly common, especially when there’s pressure to be calmer, more productive, or more “together.”

Many people blame themselves for this: for not being disciplined enough, resilient enough, or mentally strong enough. 

But what if anxiety isn’t a personal failure and what if your brain is actually doing exactly what it was designed to do?

This is exactly why Tamsen sat down with Dr. Wendy Suzuki, a world-renowned neuroscientist, NYU professor, and expert on brain plasticity: the brain’s ability to change and adapt.

Dr. Suzuki has spent decades studying how stress, anxiety, movement, sleep, and daily habits shape the brain. 

Her work shows that anxiety isn’t just a feeling, it’s a biological response that can hijack focus, memory, and emotional regulation when the brain is under pressure.

In this episode, she breaks down what’s really happening inside your brain when anxiety shows up and explains why trying to “push through” or “calm down” often backfires.

 Most importantly, she shares the science-backed tools that actually help your nervous system reset and restore a sense of control.

They discuss:

- Why anxiety is a fight-or-flight response, not a mindset problem

- What chronic stress does to focus, memory, and emotional regulation

- Why anxiety can make you feel foggy, tense, or unlike yourself

- The role movement, cardio, and sleep play in calming the brain

- Simple tools you can use in real life to calm your nervous system today

This conversation cuts through the shame and confusion around anxiety and replaces it with clarity, relief, and understanding. 

Instead of asking you to “fix yourself,” it shows you how to work with your brain.

If anxiety has been running the show and leaving you feeling overwhelmed or out of control, this episode offers a grounded, science-backed way to understand what’s happening and what actually helps.

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Starting over can feel overwhelming and discouraging, especially when it comes to dating, navigating dating apps, and trying to make sense of modern dating after divorce or a long relationship. 

Many women find themselves burnt out, questioning their instincts, and unsure how to find a healthy relationship when the old rules no longer seem to apply.

This is exactly why Tamsen turned to Bela Gandhi, dating coach, relationship expert, and founder of the Smart Dating Academy. Bela has helped thousands of women find meaningful, lasting relationships by replacing guesswork with a clear, data-driven formula for dating with intention.

In this episode, she lays out the framework she uses to help women find love that feels safe, secure, and emotionally available and explains why following a proven system matters more than chemistry, luck, or timing.

They discuss:

- Why dating apps feel so exhausting and how to use them more strategically

- The biggest mistakes people make on dating profiles and photos

- What chemistry really is and why butterflies can be misleading

- How to spot red flags early without becoming cynical

- What to look for (and not overthink) on first dates

- How to date with clarity, confidence, and realistic expectations

- The patterns and behaviors that consistently lead to lasting relationships

This conversation cuts through the noise, myths, and mixed messages around dating and replaces them with clarity, reassurance, and a roadmap you can actually follow.

If your goal in 2026 is to find lasting love, the kind that feels safe, secure, and grounded, this episode offers a smarter, more intentional way to date without burning out or losing yourself.

By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with renewed hope, practical tools, and the confidence that finding love doesn’t have to be random. When you follow the right formula, it becomes possible.

Ready for more support? Download the 2026 Dating Profile Cheat Sheet.

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