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What can uncontacted tribes teach us about trust, status, and connection? Psychologist Guillaume Dulude treks into the wild to find out.
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What We Discuss with Guillaume Dulude:
Guillaume Dulude doesn't use language to build trust with uncontacted tribes — he relies on eye contact, body language, and patience, proving that human connection is fundamentally nonverbal and precedes words.
Giving gifts to isolated communities often backfires: it shifts the dynamic from relationship to transaction, conditions tribes to expect objects from outsiders, and corrupts future interactions — even well-intentioned ones.
Traditional tribes operate on earned respect rather than self-declared worth. Status requires proof — skills, contributions, demonstrated value — a stark contrast to modern culture's obsession with self-esteem untethered from action.
Tribal communities have clear rites of passage that mark transitions between life stages. Modern Western culture largely lacks these — leaving people without meaningful, socially recognized ways to grow from one phase of life to the next.
Anyone can learn to build meaningful cross-cultural connection. Guillaume's methods — mirroring, earning trust before asking anything, staying curious — are trainable skills. Approach new people with humility, let them teach you something, and let the relationship lead.
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America's homeless crisis is real — but the narrative around it is murkier. Nick Pell untangles fact from agenda here on Skeptical Sunday.
Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by writer and researcher Nick Pell!
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On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:
Homelessness isn't one thing — it's divided into three distinct categories: situational (a rough patch), episodic (a recurring pattern), and chronic (a long-term condition tied to disability). Conflating the guy in his car for a month with someone who's lived on the street for a decade distorts the entire conversation.
The "one paycheck away from homelessness" narrative is largely a myth. The two primary risk factors for chronic homelessness are untreated mental illness and addiction — not an empty savings account. Felony records and sex offender registration also account for up to 40% of cases.
The homelessness industry has a financial incentive to exaggerate the problem. Terms like "hidden homeless" and "doubling up" — which describe people crashing with friends or splitting rent — get laundered into crisis statistics, inflating numbers and, conveniently, funding requests.
"Housing First" — the philosophy of putting people in homes no matter what — is more complicated than its advocates admit. A Denver study found Housing First clients had 1.5 times the mortality rate of programs that required sobriety. In one Ottawa study, it produced a higher death rate than street homelessness itself.
Effective homelessness solutions aren't a single magic bullet — they're a layered response. More shelter capacity, smarter enforcement paired with immediate referrals, accessible mental health treatment, and expanded sobriety-linked housing all move the needle. Cities like Las Vegas and San Diego have shown that enforcement and compassion aren't mutually exclusive — they can work together.
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He says his ex was just a rebound. So why does she get the warm smiles, dinner plans, and the stories while you get the cold shoulder? It's Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday:
If you don't want to hear about Gabe's fabulous time in Praia de Algodões, Bahia or New York City, fast forward about 12 minutes to directly board the dooze cruise.
Your husband has kept in touch with his ex — a "rebound" who somehow never quite bounced out of his life — and a recent family dinner with her left you feeling invisible, outmaneuvered, and weirdly unable to articulate exactly why this friendship bothers you more than all his others. You're in couples therapy. So what do you bring up, and what does it actually mean?
You're a mechanical engineer who just started therapy for the second time, making solid progress on your concrete goals — anxiety, professional stuff — and yet the guys keep suggesting therapy is a long-haul thing, not just a pit stop. Is staying past your "fixed" point actually productive, or just expensive navel-gazing? You're skeptical. Are you missing something?
You've spent three years as the full-time caregiver for your nearly 100-year-old mother — a sharp-tongued, guilt-wielding, openly racist woman who refuses professional help and has boxed out your brother's Asian wife entirely. You love her, but you're starting to wonder if the best years of your retirement are being consumed by a woman who may just outlive your patience. How do you honor your duty without losing yourself?
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You heard the episode (1259, question one) where a young man wrote in about his estranged sister and their "crazy mother" — and you recognized the story immediately, because you're that sister. Growing up in that house looked quite different from the inside, and there's a chapter of your relationship with your brother that his letter left out entirely. What happened — and where things stand now — is something else.
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Clean energy has a dirty secret buried deep in the Congo. The Elements of Power author Nicolas Niarchos is here to pull the supply chain apart link by link.
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What We Discuss with Nicolas Niarchos:
"Clean" energy isn't clean — the cobalt in your phone or EV may have been hand-dug in dangerous DRC mine pits by workers living under near-slavery conditions, earning barely enough to scrape by.
China processes 70–90% of critical battery metals and owns major mines across the DRC and Indonesia, giving it a stranglehold on the global supply chain that dwarfs OPEC's peak leverage over oil.
Supply chain audits are largely theater — documents have flagged child labor and dangerous conditions at specific mines, yet production never stopped, and conditions often worsened in the years that followed.
Communities surrounding DRC mines face heavy metal contamination, mine collapses, and the world's highest rates of congenital birth defects — a catastrophic human toll that's invisible at the point of sale.
You're not powerless: using your devices longer, raising concerns at shareholder meetings, and pushing elected officials to prioritize ethical sourcing are concrete steps that create real, compounding pressure for change.
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