This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Shownotes   Why pure play is so important in healing The importance of trusting the pace of your body A simple practice to make emotions conscious Why relational wounding is healed in relationship How to access your partner’s deepest magic What you can do to become more magnetic   Bio   Starielle Hope is a relationship and intimacy coach who specializes in working with people who have found success in their careers, but struggle to find the same success in relationships.   She grew up in a constant state of loneliness that she thought was normal because it was all she had ever known. After feeling terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to her, she experienced a wakeup call in her early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but she could actually learn how to connect more deeply with others just as she could learn any other skill. So she set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for herself.    Along the way, she discovered that she has a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible, step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like Starielle) can understand and adopt.   Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved her happiness and well-being more than anything else she’s ever done, and she absolutely loves sharing what she’s learned along the way.   Starielle has been doing this work for over a decade now and loves every minute of it. She currently shares the knowledge she’s gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing her first book later this year.   Discover more of Starielle’s work and connect with her on her website. Timestamps   00:02:01 - Guest introduction 00:03:55 - How Layla and Starielle first met 00:08:30 - Starielle shares a powerful example of magnetism from Layla’s birthday 00:09:40 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:10:28 - Why pure play is so important in healing 00:11:34 - Starielle shares about her personal growth path 00:13:05 - True play is the opposite of trauma 00:18:13 - Feeling your feelings allows you to sparkle 00:23:24 - The importance of trusting the pace of your body 00:23:49 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:28:14 - Starielle shares a simple practice to make emotions conscious 00:34:00 - Relational wounding is healed in relationship 00:37:37 - 3 stages of dependence 00:43:11 - How to access your partner’s deepest magic 00:44:10 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:45:19 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:46:30 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:49:13 - The different energies of anger 00:52:43 - Men are meant to be warriors 00:56:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 00:59:52 -  Why reading women’s signals is so important for men 01:05:50 - One of the biggest issues Starielle sees with men 01:09:15 - What you can do to become more magnetic 01:11:36 - Starielle shares her experience in VITA™ Coaching 01:15:10 - Conclusion  

Shownotes   Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages How to honor your inner High Priestess The true source of the witch wound Why your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination How to know if you're operating from true love or delusion   Bio   Elayne Kalila Doughty, MA, MFT, is an ordained priestess and focalizer of the 13 Moon Mystery School and Rosa Mystica Mystery School. She’s been on a path of passionate service for the past thirty years, inspiring women around the world to unleash their leadership gifts and step into their full potential.     She is the Dean and Founder of the Priestess Presence School of the Sacred Arts and + Temple which serves a sisterhood of over 100K women around the world. She trains, initiates and ordains women as modern day priestesses, ceremonialists and powerful feminine leaders in all walks of life and professions. She specializes in helping women tap into their deepest wisdom, enabling them to harness their own transformational power to be more effective and whole in every aspect of their lives.   She is the best selling co-author of The Sacred Call of the Ancient Priestess, and author of The Magdalene Rose Oracle. She is the host of The Red Podcast: A Place for Bold Inspired, Outrageously Courageous & Just a Tad Bit Naughty Women Leaders To Gather… to talk about all the things that are most important in our lives! Timestamps   00:01:53 - Guest introduction 00:05:07 - Elayne Kalila takes listeners into the inner world of the High Priestess 00:07:37 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:08:24 - What are the faces of the goddess? 00:10:40 - Layla and Elayne Kalila explore the opening scene of Wonderwoman 00:13:50 - Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness 00:16:13 - The specific position High Priestesses held in their cultures 00:20:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:24:33 - The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages 00:28:06 - Exploring the source of the witch wound 00:32:13 - Elayne Kalila’s theory on women in menopause 00:36:00 - How Layla used meditation as a liferaft for working with terror 00:41:21 - Unlocking your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination 00:44:03 - What exactly is the sisterhood wound? 00:47:37 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:48:47 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:49:54 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:52:09 - The pathway of love 00:54:57 - Elayne Kalila shares the power of one of her Ayahuasca journeys 00:57:00 - Love is not one thing, it’s many things 01:02:55 - How do you know if you're operating from true love or delusion? 01:08:29 - Elayne Kalila and Layla drink SEX MAGIC™ 01:09:48 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 01:16:43 - Elayne Kalila explores Mary Magdalene’s lineage vs the Magdalene collective consciousness 01:23:21 - How do you not get caught in your story as a High Priestess? 01:26:05 - How to honor your inner High Priestess 01:28:55 - Conclusion  

Shownotes   How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra How Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth Exactly what an RBDSMT conversation is and how it can serve you How to practice consent in a sexy way   Bio   Laurie Handlers is the author of 2 international bestselling books, Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and Sex & Happiness: It Gets Better with Age. She empowers people to fall deeply in love with themselves and their partners. An expert in the fields of sexuality, intimacy and relationships, Laurie has taught transformational workshops on topics ranging from releasing past emotional trauma, fearless communication and sacred sexuality since 1978.   Michael Gibson is a Certified Sex and Happiness Coach, the co-founder of the Academy for Men and creator of the Extraordinary Lovers Experience; a program that guides couples into long lasting conscious-relating to deepen intimacy, communication and connection. His Academy for Men’s Coaching Program trains men in the skills of presence, communication and exquisite touch, focusing on intimacy, pleasure and healing. Michael is known for the quote, “Consent: don’t have sex without it!”   Partners Michael and Laurie have also created an online community called Laurie Handlers' Inner Circle that serves its members through podcast interviews, online courses and monthly live calls, and offer relationship coaching, workshops and retreats on Extraordinary Love. Timestamps   00:01:36 - Guest introduction 00:03:26 - The story of how Laurie and Michael met 00:06:28 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:07:40 - How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged 00:09:20 - Why older people need boundaries in a different way than younger people 00:12:45 - What allowed Michael to say yes to Laurie changing his life 00:15:21 - The stories women tell themselves that block them from opportunity 00:17:18 - Michael proposes to Laurie in a 5-star Port-a-Potty 00:18:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:23:04 - What made Michael cry at his own wedding 00:25:30 - There is no expiration date on your highest dreams 00:27:44 - Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species 00:31:18 - When Laurie knew she didn’t want to be in an open relationship any longer 00:35:28 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:36:37 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:37:49 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:40:12 - Laurie shares her experience teaching sexuality in the 70’s 00:44:38 - The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra 00:48:49 - The Tantric tools Laurie has seen help other women and herself the most 00:54:06 - Layla talks about the foundational philosophy of Tantra 00:58:54 - Michael explains the saying “Welcome to your life” 01:01:55 - Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth 01:02:49 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 01:04:16 - How to practice consent in a sexy way 01:06:53 - Consent is the gift of choice 01:09:50 - Michael explains what an RBDSMT conversation is 01:13:04 - How Laurie and Michael’s RBDSMT conversation began 01:17:33 - The one thing Michael wants men to know 01:20:59 - Laurie’s top advice for women 01:23:54 - Michael and Laurie’s message to couples 01:27:32 - The Return to Love Game 01:29:28 - Conclusion  

Join Gala on the Vortex Vision channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCURECg3DrQlblbNah9fspCQ Download the Vortex app! https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/id6657993982   Shownotes   Why it’s so important to break the rules How Gala actively chose to make her life her masterpiece Layla’s definition of full spectrum self-love Why overthinking sucks the magic out of life The number one thing people want to manifest A powerful guided EFT tapping exercise    Bio   Gala Darling has been revolutionizing the self-help space for close to two decades. Teaching EFT tapping through her unique spiritual pop star lens, she’s helped hundreds of thousands of people step onto a path of emotional healing, radical self-love and expansive living.    Originally from New Zealand, Gala is the bestselling author of Radical Self-Love: A Guide To Loving Yourself And Living Your Dreams, and Magnetic Mindset: How To Make Love To The Universe And Manifest Anything. She is a TED speaker, has taught at NYU, been featured in every major publication that counts from Vogue to the New York Times and worked with celebrity clients like Rainn Wilson and the original Girlboss, Sophia Amoruso.   Gala believes deeply that pleasure is your birthright, that the process of becoming your future self should be a joyful one and that feeling good is your job!   Click here to join Gala on the Vortex Vision YouTube channel and download the Vortex app here.  Timestamps   00:01:56 - Guest introduction 00:03:54 - Why it’s so important to break the rules 00:06:09 - There are no awards for following the rules 00:07:03 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:07:47 - Gala actively chose to make her life her masterpiece 00:09:56 - How nervousness and excitement about the future integrate  00:13:32 - The importance of experimenting with your personal style 00:16:35 - No one’s choices come from radical self love 100% of the time 00:18:21 - Layla explains full spectrum self-love 00:21:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:24:44 - Why overthinking sucks the magic out of life 00:25:48 - Gala shares her love story 00:30:21 - The core belief that changed the dating game for Gala 00:38:26 - An exploration of self-sourcing for women 00:41:58 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:43:08 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:44:18 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:45:47 - Layla and Gala drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:47:23 - Why Gala went to Europe for her 40th birthday 00:51:06 - The number one thing people want to manifest 00:56:50 - Gala guides listeners through a powerful EFT tapping exercise  01:00:02 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 01:02:15 - The science behind EFT tapping 01:05:56 - Gala shares how we manifest with two hands 01:07:18 - Conclusion