Autistic and ADHD Kids Parenting Strategies: Every Brain is Different

In this episode, Samantha and Lauren talk about the patterns of clothing preferences in children with autism and ADHD. They discuss common scenarios where children suddenly favor previously ignored clothes and share insights from an occupational therapist on managing these behaviors.
The conversation encompasses practical strategies from other parents, the importance of sensory safety, and the impact of new clothing on a child's nervous system.
Emphasizing the need for comfort over social expectations, they address the pressures parents face and offer solutions for creating a stress-free clothing environment for neurodivergent children.
 
00:00 Introduction
00:40 Clothing Choices for Neurodivergent Kids
03:14 Strategies for Encouraging Kids to Wear New Clothes
06:10 Understanding Sensory Sensitivities
06:56 Personal Experiences and Reflections
08:30 Balancing Comfort and Social Expectations
17:17 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics
18:19 Invitation to the Summit

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Samantha and Lauren talk with Ryan Miele, the creator of the Tubrbobo Relief. Ryan describes how Turbobo features five clinically-proven elements to reduce anxiety by targeting physiological symptoms, including a weighted body, fidget tail, tactile ear patches, and customizable sensory inserts.
The conversation highlights the product's success in over 400 schools across the US and positive testimonials, such as its calming effect on students. He also emphasizes the importance of using stress-relief tools proactively and shares insights into his foundational research, mentorship experiences, and how Turbobo can help individuals of all ages find calmness and focus in their daily lives.
 
00:00 Introduction
00:40 Meet Our Special Guest: Ryan Miele
01:11 The Inspiration Behind Turbobo
03:04 How Turbobo Helps with Anxiety
05:58 Success Stories and Testimonials
07:36 The Science and Research Behind Turbobo
11:29 Tips for Managing Anxiety
13:29 Where to Find Turbobo and Final Thoughts
16:41 Closing Remarks and Personal Reflections
 
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Jessica Frew is back with her book, 'Shove Your Shoulds,' focusing on the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent parents.
Samantha, Lauren, and Jessica discuss the emotional struggles of navigating family dynamics and the societal expectations of parenting.
Jessica introduces the concept of 'mini grief' and the importance of acknowledging and processing these emotions without guilt. Emphasizing the need to release unhelpful stories and pressures, she encourages parents to let relationships develop naturally and on their own terms, fostering a safe and empowering environment for their children.
Jessica also highlights the significance of redefining success and happiness for both parents and children, breaking away from conditional programming and societal benchmarks. She reassures parents that they are doing enough and underscores the importance of grace, love, and acceptance, both for themselves and their children.
 
00:00 Introduction
00:37 Extended Conversation with Jessica Fru
00:51 Struggles of Neurodivergent Parents
01:52 Understanding and Accepting Grief
03:42 Releasing Expectations and Stories
06:02 Real-Life Examples of Relationships
08:10 Letting Relationships Blossom Naturally
15:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
 
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Dr. Temple Grandin is a renowned animal behaviorist, autism advocate, and professor of animal science at Colorado State University. Diagnosed with autism at a young age, she has used her unique perspective to revolutionize livestock handling systems, designing humane facilities that are used worldwide. Dr. Grandin is also a best-selling author and a leading voice in the neurodiversity movement, advocating for early interventions and supportive environments for individuals on the autism spectrum. Her groundbreaking work has earned her numerous accolades, including being named one of Time magazine’s 100 most influential people. A sought-after speaker, she inspires countless people with her story of turning what others saw as challenges into her greatest strengths.
 
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In this episode, Samantha and Lauren continue their discussion on how to communicate positively with neurodivergent children, ensuring your child receives more positive than negative feedback.
They explore various strategies such as praising effort over outcome, naming invisible skills like regulation and flexibility, and using descriptive feedback instead of generic praise to help neurodivergent kids feel understood and appreciated.
Samantha and Lauren emphasize the importance of catching small, neutral moments and separating behavior from identity to avoid feelings of shame. They also discuss the significance of building positive feedback into daily routines and reflecting strengths during hard moments to establish a predictable, supportive environment.
They wrap up by offering practical questions parents can ask themselves to evaluate their feedback practices and promoting resources available on their website for further support.
 
00:00 Introduction
00:40 Recap of Last Week's Episode
01:22 The Importance of Positive Feedback
04:17 Strategies for Giving Positive Feedback
04:51 Praising Effort Over Outcome
07:18 Naming Invisible Skills
09:37 Using Descriptive Feedback
12:20 Catching Small Moments
14:43 Separating Behavior from Identity
18:59 Reflecting Strengths During Hard Moments
19:30 Building Positive Feedback into Routines
21:23 Recap and Final Thoughts
 
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